Sacramento, California, U.S.A.
My dad has schizophrenia and was placed in a home in the Sacramento area, California. I haven't seen him in 35 years.
A year ago I began communicating with his mom (who is 90 years old) and my aunt but they have denied each of my requests to contact my dad. I told them I don't want any money from him I just want an opportunity to get to know him. They hold power of attorney over him and have told me point blank they don't want me to contact him. I was told by my aunt (his sister) that he is happy in the home they placed him in, that he is taking his medication and his condition is considered stable, and she said he thinks about me every day.
I'm also not sure what my rights are as his daughter.
I'm trying to I find out which home he is in. I know his full legal name and his social security number and have my birth certificate and he is still legally married to my mother.
My questions are:
1. How can I find out which facility he is in?
2. Do I have legal rights to contact him? And if so in what ways may I contact him. Can I write him a letter? Can I call him? May I visit him?
3. If I mail a letter to all of the mental illness facilities in the area addressed to my dad, if he lives at one of them will they deliver the letter to him?
4. Do I need to file a legal proceeding to gain access to my dad since they have power of attorney and don't want me to be in contact with him?
5. Can a private investigator retrieve information I cannot in locating my dad?
6. Even though they have been separated for 35 years my mother is still legally married to my dad – what are her rights to contact him?
What I want:
• To contact my dad
• To avoid a lengthy legal battle with my grandmother
• To minimize/avoid hefty legal/lawyer fees
• To minimize/avoid private investigation fees
I just want to get to know my dad and I don't know how to go about it. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
My dad has schizophrenia and was placed in a home in the Sacramento area, California. I haven't seen him in 35 years.
A year ago I began communicating with his mom (who is 90 years old) and my aunt but they have denied each of my requests to contact my dad. I told them I don't want any money from him I just want an opportunity to get to know him. They hold power of attorney over him and have told me point blank they don't want me to contact him. I was told by my aunt (his sister) that he is happy in the home they placed him in, that he is taking his medication and his condition is considered stable, and she said he thinks about me every day.
I'm also not sure what my rights are as his daughter.
I'm trying to I find out which home he is in. I know his full legal name and his social security number and have my birth certificate and he is still legally married to my mother.
My questions are:
1. How can I find out which facility he is in?
2. Do I have legal rights to contact him? And if so in what ways may I contact him. Can I write him a letter? Can I call him? May I visit him?
3. If I mail a letter to all of the mental illness facilities in the area addressed to my dad, if he lives at one of them will they deliver the letter to him?
4. Do I need to file a legal proceeding to gain access to my dad since they have power of attorney and don't want me to be in contact with him?
5. Can a private investigator retrieve information I cannot in locating my dad?
6. Even though they have been separated for 35 years my mother is still legally married to my dad – what are her rights to contact him?
What I want:
• To contact my dad
• To avoid a lengthy legal battle with my grandmother
• To minimize/avoid hefty legal/lawyer fees
• To minimize/avoid private investigation fees
I just want to get to know my dad and I don't know how to go about it. Any advice is greatly appreciated.