What is the name of your state? Oregon
My brother died over a month ago. He and his wife, my sister-in-law, set up separate wills using the same attorney. My brother let several people, including his only daughter from a previous marriage, know that they were in his will. He didn't have much, but we know he left my niece $10,000 to be given to her immediately upon his death, because he told everyone. My niece just called their lawyer to ask when the will would be read, and he said my sister-in-law had not notified him that my brother had died. She managed to notify every other means of money for her, but not the lawyer. The lawyer also told my niece that he could not tell her who was the executor, but that her step-mom was the only person who could have the will read or start probate, or that my niece would have to get legal representation to do so. My niece, who lives out of town, asked my sister-in-law to have the reading when she came up to scatter my brother's ashes. She wouldn't do it. My sister-in-law also told my niece she couldn't have the $10,000 for at least a year because it would hurt her financially. My sister-in-law just inherited a half-million dollar trust from her mother and is spending thousands on clothes.
What should my niece, and the rest of us who are in his will and would at least like to know and honor his intentions, do?
My brother died over a month ago. He and his wife, my sister-in-law, set up separate wills using the same attorney. My brother let several people, including his only daughter from a previous marriage, know that they were in his will. He didn't have much, but we know he left my niece $10,000 to be given to her immediately upon his death, because he told everyone. My niece just called their lawyer to ask when the will would be read, and he said my sister-in-law had not notified him that my brother had died. She managed to notify every other means of money for her, but not the lawyer. The lawyer also told my niece that he could not tell her who was the executor, but that her step-mom was the only person who could have the will read or start probate, or that my niece would have to get legal representation to do so. My niece, who lives out of town, asked my sister-in-law to have the reading when she came up to scatter my brother's ashes. She wouldn't do it. My sister-in-law also told my niece she couldn't have the $10,000 for at least a year because it would hurt her financially. My sister-in-law just inherited a half-million dollar trust from her mother and is spending thousands on clothes.
What should my niece, and the rest of us who are in his will and would at least like to know and honor his intentions, do?
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