DUIasahobby
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
My son's mom just got her 2nd DUI. She got an attorney this time but still pled guilty yesterday and will be sentenced in a month. It is her second tier 2 and I don't imagine they will be easy on her given the state but she is pulling every trick she knows. She asked me to say nice things if someone calls me because she asked for something called a PSI to try to get no jail time or just weekends in jail. She is telling them she has half custody of my son when she actually does not. There is no court order but I have him all the time and she comes and gets him maybe once a week at most. I have kept track of it for a few years now because I heard that was a good idea so there's no question about it. Plus he goes to school from my house while she lives in another town that is a 35 minute drive to his school. She just started asking me for more time because her attorney said it might help her so she looks good or the judge will feel sorry for her when being sentenced and said that was exactly why she is asking for more time. Will the person doing the PSI really call me? I don't know why my ex would want that or why she would expect me to lie for her and to be honest I want to contact them myself since she straight out told me she is going to lie and is just using our son to try to look like an involved mother.
The other question is she is seeing her ex again, who is a guy who has had so many DUIs that he doesn't have a license for the rest of his life, plus he has severely beat her and attacked a cop during arrest. I have police reports for all of this stuff and it goes into quite some detail about the last time he attacked her and also got reckless endangerment for trapping her in the car and swiping a semi while driving drunk. He got out of jail in February and they went back to seeing each other right away. Problem is he is on probation for 5 years after this last incident (he was in jail for two years), and I don't think his parole officer knows or would be happy that he's back with the woman he beat up, that she also has DUIs, and that they are both drinking (I had to go pick up my son the other day when she had him because she said she had a few drinks with the boyfriend over and wanted to be safe. At least she's not being that stupid for once.) I know I could go to court and go through the mess of getting it ordered that he can't be around my boy because I have talked to an attorney already. But it seems like it would be a lot faster and free if I just call his probation and tell them what is going on and let them handle him. I want to know if I can do that or if it is a waste of time.
My son's mom just got her 2nd DUI. She got an attorney this time but still pled guilty yesterday and will be sentenced in a month. It is her second tier 2 and I don't imagine they will be easy on her given the state but she is pulling every trick she knows. She asked me to say nice things if someone calls me because she asked for something called a PSI to try to get no jail time or just weekends in jail. She is telling them she has half custody of my son when she actually does not. There is no court order but I have him all the time and she comes and gets him maybe once a week at most. I have kept track of it for a few years now because I heard that was a good idea so there's no question about it. Plus he goes to school from my house while she lives in another town that is a 35 minute drive to his school. She just started asking me for more time because her attorney said it might help her so she looks good or the judge will feel sorry for her when being sentenced and said that was exactly why she is asking for more time. Will the person doing the PSI really call me? I don't know why my ex would want that or why she would expect me to lie for her and to be honest I want to contact them myself since she straight out told me she is going to lie and is just using our son to try to look like an involved mother.
The other question is she is seeing her ex again, who is a guy who has had so many DUIs that he doesn't have a license for the rest of his life, plus he has severely beat her and attacked a cop during arrest. I have police reports for all of this stuff and it goes into quite some detail about the last time he attacked her and also got reckless endangerment for trapping her in the car and swiping a semi while driving drunk. He got out of jail in February and they went back to seeing each other right away. Problem is he is on probation for 5 years after this last incident (he was in jail for two years), and I don't think his parole officer knows or would be happy that he's back with the woman he beat up, that she also has DUIs, and that they are both drinking (I had to go pick up my son the other day when she had him because she said she had a few drinks with the boyfriend over and wanted to be safe. At least she's not being that stupid for once.) I know I could go to court and go through the mess of getting it ordered that he can't be around my boy because I have talked to an attorney already. But it seems like it would be a lot faster and free if I just call his probation and tell them what is going on and let them handle him. I want to know if I can do that or if it is a waste of time.