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Old 10-24-2009, 08:40 PM
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I don't know what to do.....


What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? pa

My boyfriend used to be into pre teen porn (child porn) back in 2004 2005 since then he went back to adult porn, because he hated himself and was disgusted by his thoughts and actions....In 2008 he had given his ex girlfriend his old computer thought he had everything erased and he did'nt ,she found all the downloads and contacted the police.He was arrested for more than 100 felony counts of sexual abuse of children for allegedly possesing 120 child pornographic images on his home computer.....He knows he needs help.... I need help. How many years is he looking at? I'm trying to find him a lawyer......
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Old 10-24-2009, 08:47 PM
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? pa

My boyfriend used to be into pre teen porn (child porn) back in 2004 2005 since then he went back to adult porn, because he hated himself and was disgusted by his thoughts and actions....In 2008 he had given his ex girlfriend his old computer thought he had everything erased and he did'nt ,she found all the downloads and contacted the police.He was arrested for more than 100 felony counts of sexual abuse of children for allegedly possesing 120 child pornographic images on his home computer.....He knows he needs help.... I need help. How many years is he looking at? I'm trying to find him a lawyer......
Wow. Just...Wow.
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Old 10-24-2009, 09:15 PM
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That did not help****************************...
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Old 10-24-2009, 09:20 PM
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That did not help****************************...
I know. I can't think of a single member here that will help a dirt-bag who has contributed to, and gets his rocks off, the sexual abuse of little children. That you would actually still go out with such a vile, disgusting monster, makes you just as bad.
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~A 8 a.m. bus-stop conversation~

"So Lil'Blue...Did you like the DVDs I got for you at the library?"
"Yes...I did!"
"Did you learn any interesting facts about the animals on the movie (Nation Geographic)?"
"Yes...I did learn interesting things!"
"Would you share with me an interesting fact?"
"Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!"

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Old 10-24-2009, 09:30 PM
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? pa

My boyfriend used to be into pre teen porn (child porn) back in 2004 2005 since then he went back to adult porn, because he hated himself and was disgusted by his thoughts and actions....In 2008 he had given his ex girlfriend his old computer thought he had everything erased and he did'nt ,
she found all the downloads and contacted the police
.He was arrested for more than 100 felony counts of sexual abuse of children for allegedly possesing 120 child pornographic images on his home computer.....He knows he needs help.... I need help. How many years is he looking at? I'm trying to find him a lawyer......
It's the bolded part which worries me most. It's almost saying "if he'd have deleted them properly and she hadn't have found them he wouldn't be in this miss, we'd be fine....".

OP, how old are you?
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Old 10-24-2009, 09:38 PM
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Well i dk what to think right now he told me that he had stopped that on his own and he knows he has problems with adult porn now and accepts that he needs alot of help for what he's done before.....And he told his mother,he's evil for what he's done and he must pay for what he did. Wow,idk**************
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Well i dk what to think right now he told me that he had stopped that on his own and he knows he has problems with adult porn now and accepts that he needs alot of help for what he's done before.....And he told his mother,he's evil for what he's done and he must pay for what he did. Wow,idk**************
The best advice anyone here can give you is to move forward without him. He needs far more help than you can give him.

Once he goes to trial he will have the opportunity to request a public defender; other than that the Yellow Pages is the best place to seek a defense attorney.
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Old 10-24-2009, 09:54 PM
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I don't know what I will do this is one of the hardest things I have delt with and It makes me feel ****ed up for still loving him I had no idea he even had court date or it was teenporn.....I went to sleep one night with the man I loved and woke up to find out all of this**************No idea at all But there was signs of how much he hated himself**************I have talked to people on the net that said they have recovered from things of this nature....But what hurts the most is that he knew he was going to jail......And never told me....Because he thought I would hate him......Idk.....It's so complicated.....
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Old 10-24-2009, 10:22 PM
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If you value yourself as a woman and human being, you'll lose the rotten dirt bag, scum bucket, pedophile.

Prison is too good for people like him.
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Old 10-24-2009, 10:29 PM
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I don't know what I will do this is one of the hardest things I have delt with and It makes me feel ****ed up for still loving him I had no idea he even had court date or it was teenporn.....I went to sleep one night with the man I loved and woke up to find out all of this**************No idea at all But there was signs of how much he hated himself**************I have talked to people on the net that said they have recovered from things of this nature....But what hurts the most is that he knew he was going to jail......And never told me....Because he thought I would hate him......Idk.....It's so complicated.....
Teen porn is NOT the same as pre-pubescent porn. While both are despicable, the second is much, much, MUCH worse. And he knew he had a court date, knew he had this hanging over his head and didn't tell you?

This isn't confusing or complicated. Value yourself more than you value the attention he gives you. Trust me - you do NOT want to be in this situation.

One other point. Child sex offenders have one of the highest re-offender rates out of ALL criminals - some sources suggest as high as 70% (that's the DOJ figure, btw). You absolutely CANNOT assume or trust that a sex offender will not offend again. It's not a guarantee that they will reoffend - but the figures speak for themselves.
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Old 10-24-2009, 10:57 PM
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i feel disgusted just reading this thread.


OP, get out now.
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Old 10-25-2009, 12:01 AM
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i feel disgusted just reading this thread.


OP, get out now.
I wish we could call troll on this one, sadly I think this one is for real
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