My intention was not to cause arguements or to have a debate.
MY RESPONSE: Good! There is no debate.
I came here to sincerely seek some advice about someone I love and someone I happen to think is worth saving.
MY RESPONSE: You had years to "save" him. You're his family, and it was up to you and the rest of your family to help him. Where were you during his addiction and before his arrest and conviction?
I guess I am so new to this that I did not realize that all people are lumped into similar categories without getting to know the individual.
MY RESPONSE: "Getting to know the individual"? Certainly, you're kidding with us. That's your job, not ours. He's your family, not ours. Look, there's over 270 MILLION people in the United States. We don't have the time to "get to know" your brother. That's why he's "lumped" with all the other lawbreakers. And that's because that's what he is. A judge and a jury have already said so, and the laws say that society says so also.
I am aware that it must be frustrating to defend people who are continually in trouble for one reason or another. I understand that there are all kinds of excuses for every crime. I just wasn't expecting to get the responses I received here.
MY RESPONSE: We are not a "touchy-feely" site. This is a "legal site." If you want or need "touchy-feely", there are plenty of other sites for that. Try "Prison Talk". You'll get all the "touchy-feely", woe-is-me baloney you'll ever need!
The truth is fine and I can handle that; I just felt it was a little harsh for someone you don't know.
MY RESPONSE: A little "harsh"? Sweetheart, if I was on the jury, I would have voted to give him "Life" behind bars. We don't need people like your brother on the "outside". I'm absolutely positive that this isn't your brother's first brush with the law, either. He's a "drain" on society.
I am not the criminal. I believe there is hope for change.
MY RESPONSE: There is no hope. When he gets out, he'll go right back to doing what he's always done, and his "wife", being an addict herself, won't be any help to him. Your brother is a lifelong loser - - a waste of society's time, and money.
IAAL