First of all, why do so many people think that a spouse being arrested and/or having a drug problem should be a reason for divorce? Ever hear the part of the marriage vows about for better or worse? It has been proven that convicts with strong family ties have a better chance of getting their acts together than those that really have nothing to lose. It takes a strong person to stand by a loved one in these circumstances, but unless he has done something else to make you consider divorce, I think you should continue to support your husband. He really needs you now. Without going into detail, I am speaking from experience. Good luck!
I am confused about the plea bargain you mentioned, if the most he can get is 3 years and they are offering him 1 year on each charge, isn't that the same amount of time? See if his lawyer can suggest rehab. instead, sometimes the court will go for that. I am skeptical of most rehab. programs, but it would be better than jail and if he has only been addicted a year, it might be worth a try. You didn't mention his drug of choice and that can sometimes determine how effective rehab. might be.
My thought are with you, let us know how thing turn out, okay?
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