My response:
This is also a Family law Board issue.
Immediately, do it yesterday . . . get your ex in court on an Emergency Order to Show Cause Re: Visitation and have his visitation changed to "Monitored" visitation. Your child will have to testify. Also, bring as much firepower to court with you: e.g., reports from both the American and Icelandic agencies to determine, with documents, that he has applied for a Passport.
Do this NOW!!
IAAL
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