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What is the name of your state? GA
My husband and I have been married 3 years. We are compatible in many ways except the bedroom.
He believes I'm not adventurous and I don't respond the way previous partners did.
So therefore, he gets discouraged and finds it easier to push me away or tell me hours of any possible relations, that he won't be in the mood tonight.
(Control issue?)
He also says he's resigned to the situation and not willing to rock the boat because a lot of our marriage is good.
He says he has a low sex drive and I'm too hung up on sex. That I want it too much.
But when I do initiate it, he says no. He has to be the one in the mood.
I have had several UTIs and yeast infections over the past couple of years (even though I'm perfectly healthy now) and it's possible he doesn't find me appealing anymore.
My question is: he is a wonderful father to our 3 year old, and excellent provider. Do I live with this situation, or do I seek a divorce? I've never been unfaithful, and neither has he. It's just that when he rejects my overtures, I in turn feel unsexy and rejected.
We have honestly talked this situation out in the past, but it always ends with me being the one who has the problem.
We're both 30 years old, and I personally, am too young to feel frumpy and passed-over.
Advice please! thanks!
My husband and I have been married 3 years. We are compatible in many ways except the bedroom.
He believes I'm not adventurous and I don't respond the way previous partners did.
So therefore, he gets discouraged and finds it easier to push me away or tell me hours of any possible relations, that he won't be in the mood tonight.
(Control issue?)
He also says he's resigned to the situation and not willing to rock the boat because a lot of our marriage is good.
He says he has a low sex drive and I'm too hung up on sex. That I want it too much.
But when I do initiate it, he says no. He has to be the one in the mood.
I have had several UTIs and yeast infections over the past couple of years (even though I'm perfectly healthy now) and it's possible he doesn't find me appealing anymore.
My question is: he is a wonderful father to our 3 year old, and excellent provider. Do I live with this situation, or do I seek a divorce? I've never been unfaithful, and neither has he. It's just that when he rejects my overtures, I in turn feel unsexy and rejected.
We have honestly talked this situation out in the past, but it always ends with me being the one who has the problem.
We're both 30 years old, and I personally, am too young to feel frumpy and passed-over.
Advice please! thanks!