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What is the name of your state? GA
My best friend recently found out her husband of six years has been cheating on her. The other person's husband discovered the month-long affair and contacted my friend. Both parties have since admitted to it as well.
Now, she is considering her options. They have no children. They do have a signed 12-month apt. lease, a car loan in her name, utilities in his, about 5 credit cards in his name and 2 in hers. And a student loan in her name. They also have a joint checking acct.
I advised her today to open a new acct. because theoretically, husband could withdraw the entire balance and leave her dry. I also advised her to go to the dr. and get tested. You don't know what's been brought home.
She isn't sure whether she wants to stay with her husband, and I don't blame her. You don't make a decision like that in one day. She's staying at her parents for a week to think things through.
Is there anything else she needs to do right now? Would she be able to break the lease? Who decides who is responsible for what bills? Although both have good jobs, my friend makes more money and has less debt than her husband.
Thanks for your time!
My best friend recently found out her husband of six years has been cheating on her. The other person's husband discovered the month-long affair and contacted my friend. Both parties have since admitted to it as well.
Now, she is considering her options. They have no children. They do have a signed 12-month apt. lease, a car loan in her name, utilities in his, about 5 credit cards in his name and 2 in hers. And a student loan in her name. They also have a joint checking acct.
I advised her today to open a new acct. because theoretically, husband could withdraw the entire balance and leave her dry. I also advised her to go to the dr. and get tested. You don't know what's been brought home.
She isn't sure whether she wants to stay with her husband, and I don't blame her. You don't make a decision like that in one day. She's staying at her parents for a week to think things through.
Is there anything else she needs to do right now? Would she be able to break the lease? Who decides who is responsible for what bills? Although both have good jobs, my friend makes more money and has less debt than her husband.
Thanks for your time!