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pegasus1969
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What is the name of your state? MS. I was divorced 2 yrs ago in Indiana. In the decree I was awarded 50% of my ex's 401k. To date I have not received anything. I contacted the 401k provider and sent all documentation to them. They said they could not do it, that I had to have a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order). I have tried to contact my lawyer who handled the divorce but he will not call me back. I contacted a lawyer here in MS and was told it would cost over $1000 and could take 2-3 years to get. I have talked to my lawyers secretary and she said she put the file on his desk. But she could not find it. Still no contact whatsoever from my lawyer. I am giving him until Friday to contact me. If he doesn't I will contact the Indiana Bar Association, ABA, and anyone else I need to, to file a formal complaint. I have been dealing with this for two years. My ex finally put the house up for sale this month, which I get 50% from also. According to the divorce decree, the house was to be sold within a year and its be two. Also, I know my ex has gotten a copy from the 401k provider in regards to the QDRO. This divorce decree has not be settled and I need help. Anyone know what I should/can do? Please help. We are talking about a substantial amount of money. Fully vested. Thank you.
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