hi im back
well this time i took beth advice i called family resource center and they helped me alot, took charges out on him for spusal, and child abuse(*have pictures*) they arrested him last saturdaysept 24 at his grandmothers, he posted bond and trial date is set for Nv. 6.
my children and i are now receiving therapy for this abuse and i also took a resraing order out on him that i have to go back oct 15 to renew for 2 years.
now get aload of this his mother came up to my home this past weekennd and told me that rent was do ??? i said what the house is paid for and we dont pay rent shawn gave me the house no she said, you owe me the money now, so i told her no then she said i had ten days to get out with her own grandchildren standing there listing to it, my son andrew 8 asked her if she was throwing him out of his home and she looked him right in the eye and grinned. She said that Shawns lawyer said that i would have to pay rent, i do not unerstand this since home is paid for????? I feel my ex is not being honest with his lawyer like i have mine told her everything even thing i would not dare mention here. So as she was walking off i told her that if they were going to evict me from my home to please make sure they did it legally so that i would have the proper paper work to take to custody and abuse hearing to show judge just what kind of parent and grandparent my children have, she walked off and have not heard form since,
these people act like there is millions of dollars at stake here we are talking about a 1996 oakwood mobile home, and a 2000 nissan quest. He closed checking account with my workers comp repay check of over 14,000.00 in it and bought himself a cd. there is no telling how much he has hidden if they are acting this way. he has not paid the first thing in child support ot alimony and i have to pay rent. get out of my face, the abuser is out of the house i am not gooing to be abused anymore by him no matter what. he can get over it..... I get 300 a week workers com i have not asked for one thing all i want is home and car and for him to leave me and kids alone,i have no proble with visitation wiht kids as long as they are supervised because he is very abusive.
still waiting to hear on the check deal they did put a restriction on my sons account because he called First Union and told them i had stolen his checks and forged his name. they froze my sons checking account saying that they were investigating mr shaffers aligations causing us to be put in finacial bind for almost three weeks. he told
First Union he took a warrent out on me for this and they beleived him and froze my sons account, now this son has nothing to do with mr shaffer this is my first son by first relationship not blood related or even adopted by mr. shaffer.
i told First union i needed a letter stating why they did this they refused i said i need to know what their findins were they refused. I would love to find a lawyer to take on First Union for me because of this and work on commision and take them to the BANK lol. anyway i have talked to some and was told that they could not do that and i shoud sue them but what are the chaces of me winning????? Any way like all big corporate places they alwas win and the small man looses no matter what you do.
Mr shaffer did call forsythe county sheriff office in w-s n.nc and filled a report and it was turned over to the da but i do not know what will happen with that since we live in virginia and it has been over a month since he did that?
anyway i will keep posting to let all know what happens in the commonwealth state of virgina with child custody, seperation, abuse charges and anything else that creeeps up
thanks for any information
Pamela Sawyers Shaffer