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mint5jf
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What is the name of your state? Indiana
I am planning on getting marred in May 2002. We have been living together for six years.
I have two children from an unwed partner. My kids are 8 and 10.
There biological father has never wanted anything to do with them.
He has established paternity when they were born by the courts. He is on their birth. certificates and they carry his last name. He is court ordered to pay support. Which is taken out of is paychecks. He was granted visitations 4 years ago by court and has abandoned the kids for 2 years this October. He has come in no contact what so ever. BUT we do receive his support payments.
Now, My fiance wants to adopt them. They refer to him as "dad" and would rather it be that way. Their bio dad was agressive, and not responsible.
Can I tell the court I do not wish to receive his support money anymore.
What can we do to get the stepparent adoption.
If we ask for the bio dads permission, he will refuse inspite of hurting me. That is the only reason for visitations and the state takes the money out of his checks or he would not pay that either.
We have not seen or heard from him for 2 years and 2 months. He does know where we live, my parents live and my parents phone number. He could contact us if he really wanted to. But I like it this way.
mint
I am planning on getting marred in May 2002. We have been living together for six years.
I have two children from an unwed partner. My kids are 8 and 10.
There biological father has never wanted anything to do with them.
He has established paternity when they were born by the courts. He is on their birth. certificates and they carry his last name. He is court ordered to pay support. Which is taken out of is paychecks. He was granted visitations 4 years ago by court and has abandoned the kids for 2 years this October. He has come in no contact what so ever. BUT we do receive his support payments.
Now, My fiance wants to adopt them. They refer to him as "dad" and would rather it be that way. Their bio dad was agressive, and not responsible.
Can I tell the court I do not wish to receive his support money anymore.
What can we do to get the stepparent adoption.
If we ask for the bio dads permission, he will refuse inspite of hurting me. That is the only reason for visitations and the state takes the money out of his checks or he would not pay that either.
We have not seen or heard from him for 2 years and 2 months. He does know where we live, my parents live and my parents phone number. He could contact us if he really wanted to. But I like it this way.
mint