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tamiart
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What is the name of your state? Virginia. My boyfriend is divorced..Aug 2002. He never dated until it was final. He has 3 wonderful, intelligent sons (of course Mom and Dad are both attorneys) He's a good Dad and now his ex wife is making noise about my spending the night or 'sleepovers' as she calls them, when the boys are there. I sleep in a seperate room, usually with a 5 month old great-grandson of mine, who his kids adore. We never sleep together or do anything inappropriate in front of any of the kids. They split custody. His lawyer and especially her lawyer says Va is a pro-child state. Not a problem for me. We sleep in seperate rooms and the kids like my being there. I have fun with them and give them accolaides about what cool Mom and Dad they have. Then Mom starts talking to them and making them report or be concerned re Dad's 'sleepover'. I understand some of the concern, ie various women and 'sleepovers'. However this man does not engage in sleeping around. I'm the 2nd women he's been serious with in his life. He's 49 and a Christian. Goes to church every Sunday. I have a tremendous amount of respect for him as a Dad and his ex for what she has accomplished in her career and as a caring parent.
My question is can the state interfere in a parent's life to say who is not fit based on an occassional 'sleepover' in a seperate room? Or if he comes to my house to 'sleepover' while their grandmom is babysitting? His ex wanted the divorce and now she's upset about the whole thing. Their son's love me and I them. I think this is a shock to her. They go home raving about me and my great-grandson to their Mom.
We are considering marriage, but in a few months. In the meantime do i have to do what her lawyer suggests...leave when the kids go to bed?? I did that as a teenager..
My question is can the state interfere in a parent's life to say who is not fit based on an occassional 'sleepover' in a seperate room? Or if he comes to my house to 'sleepover' while their grandmom is babysitting? His ex wanted the divorce and now she's upset about the whole thing. Their son's love me and I them. I think this is a shock to her. They go home raving about me and my great-grandson to their Mom.
We are considering marriage, but in a few months. In the meantime do i have to do what her lawyer suggests...leave when the kids go to bed?? I did that as a teenager..