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What is the name of your state? Ohio
My husband recently sent me the Affidavit(s) for a Dissolution and something doesn't seem right about it. I don't want the divorce to begin with, so do I have to repond to them? He is the Plaintiff and only filled out a FEW sections of the paperwork, he did not fill out his income section. Not only did he NOT fill out certain parts of the papers he filled out stuff with PENCIL. Is this so he can change it later? I don't want this divorce right now--I'd rather wait until I am back home and have started my new job but that's not for a month or so. My husband is very deceitful and I realy don't trust him. The problem with the financial/income section of the Affidavit is that he's an independant contractor and gets paid cash for his work so he doesn't have any pay stubs. Not only that but he doesn't put it in the Bank he just keeps it in a lock box. I don't want him to make it look like he's poor because he makes really good money. I'm the one who doesn't make that great of money and I may very well need alimony.
My question is, I don't want to have to deal with this divorce right now because I want to move back home to deal with it. I currently live 3 hours away from my husband as I took a temporary job promotion and now if I want to move back into the house my husband says that I have to make the WHOLE entire house payment even though BOTH of our names are on the Home Loan (b/c of credit cards, etc) and if HE lives in the house then I have to pay HALF the house payment even though I'm not living in it. I have always paid half the house payment and helped pay the bills too. Not only that my husband and I shared a conversation not too long ago that I told him I can't wait to move back home and he said he can't wait either so I can move back and be his WIFE. 2 days later he sends a LETTER saying he doesn't want to be married anymore!! What can I do?? I just know my husband is going to be sneaky and deceitful throughout this whole thing.
This is a very deep-seeded problem and I really need to discuss this with someone further so if anyone would like to help me out please feel free to send me an e-mail because I can't afford a lawyer right now and could really use some friendly advice.
If anyone has any questions for me feel free to ask.
Thanks so much!
My husband recently sent me the Affidavit(s) for a Dissolution and something doesn't seem right about it. I don't want the divorce to begin with, so do I have to repond to them? He is the Plaintiff and only filled out a FEW sections of the paperwork, he did not fill out his income section. Not only did he NOT fill out certain parts of the papers he filled out stuff with PENCIL. Is this so he can change it later? I don't want this divorce right now--I'd rather wait until I am back home and have started my new job but that's not for a month or so. My husband is very deceitful and I realy don't trust him. The problem with the financial/income section of the Affidavit is that he's an independant contractor and gets paid cash for his work so he doesn't have any pay stubs. Not only that but he doesn't put it in the Bank he just keeps it in a lock box. I don't want him to make it look like he's poor because he makes really good money. I'm the one who doesn't make that great of money and I may very well need alimony.
My question is, I don't want to have to deal with this divorce right now because I want to move back home to deal with it. I currently live 3 hours away from my husband as I took a temporary job promotion and now if I want to move back into the house my husband says that I have to make the WHOLE entire house payment even though BOTH of our names are on the Home Loan (b/c of credit cards, etc) and if HE lives in the house then I have to pay HALF the house payment even though I'm not living in it. I have always paid half the house payment and helped pay the bills too. Not only that my husband and I shared a conversation not too long ago that I told him I can't wait to move back home and he said he can't wait either so I can move back and be his WIFE. 2 days later he sends a LETTER saying he doesn't want to be married anymore!! What can I do?? I just know my husband is going to be sneaky and deceitful throughout this whole thing.
This is a very deep-seeded problem and I really need to discuss this with someone further so if anyone would like to help me out please feel free to send me an e-mail because I can't afford a lawyer right now and could really use some friendly advice.
If anyone has any questions for me feel free to ask.
Thanks so much!
. Take the papers you have to an attorney and discuss the whole situation with them -- all future correspondence can also be reviewed by them ......... the reason I say this is I would hate to see him sneak something past you because if you fail to respond to certain documents his case will be granted by default (meaning he gets what he wants because you don't reply)