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Ranee
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What is the name of your state? oklahoma
ok....first I never thought I would be asking these kind of questions. My Husband of 6 years has left me and our three children. he says he wants to be debt free and then we can be together again. however, he has left me and the girls with my parents and he is now with his. finances have been an issue since we married. I have worked off and on. we finally agreed that my place was at home with the girls 12, 4 & 2. he know says we wouldn't be in this situation if I had continued to work. so i again got a job last week and am now working full time again. i had found us a house and had put a deposite down on it. he said if i move to it he wasn't coming home, but if i stayed w/my family he would come home. so i got my deposite back as he wished. he now says he is not comeing back out here either, because he can't handle it here. i found out today he has taken his name off of our joint acts and has changed his pin numbers on his acts. in questioning this he just gets angry and says he doesn't want a divorce. well then what's going on. he just says he want's to be debt free. I am dealing w/everything else on my own and he wont tell the girls anything....he says he will pay me$75.oo a week. I just don't know what to do...any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
ok....first I never thought I would be asking these kind of questions. My Husband of 6 years has left me and our three children. he says he wants to be debt free and then we can be together again. however, he has left me and the girls with my parents and he is now with his. finances have been an issue since we married. I have worked off and on. we finally agreed that my place was at home with the girls 12, 4 & 2. he know says we wouldn't be in this situation if I had continued to work. so i again got a job last week and am now working full time again. i had found us a house and had put a deposite down on it. he said if i move to it he wasn't coming home, but if i stayed w/my family he would come home. so i got my deposite back as he wished. he now says he is not comeing back out here either, because he can't handle it here. i found out today he has taken his name off of our joint acts and has changed his pin numbers on his acts. in questioning this he just gets angry and says he doesn't want a divorce. well then what's going on. he just says he want's to be debt free. I am dealing w/everything else on my own and he wont tell the girls anything....he says he will pay me$75.oo a week. I just don't know what to do...any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.