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Daizis4Me
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texas.... legally divorced or not ??
in april of 1998 my husband & i separated and started seeing others.He filed for divorce & i paid half.i signed a waiver or something,i didn't have to be there.we have 3 boys & that is one thing that I promised him when the oldest was born,that i would never take his boys from him,and gave him full custody.early august of 1998 we started talking & we moved back in together as husband & wife, forgetting about the divorce proceedings.we celebrated our 8yr anniversary mid september and the last week of september got the finalized papers in the mail.we have been living together as husband & wife since.his parents knew about the divorce proceedings,but none of my family knew at the time,only my dad & stepmom know now.only a couple of people that we know,know of the divorce.january of 2003 he told me he was seeing someone.i want us to stay together. are we legally divorced? he was living at a differt address than i when he filed,but we were back together before it was finalized. can i contest this or is it too late? or are we "common law"? if he leaves can i make him file again? can i take my boys this time? i don't want us to be over,but if it comes to that i want my kids! please help !!
in april of 1998 my husband & i separated and started seeing others.He filed for divorce & i paid half.i signed a waiver or something,i didn't have to be there.we have 3 boys & that is one thing that I promised him when the oldest was born,that i would never take his boys from him,and gave him full custody.early august of 1998 we started talking & we moved back in together as husband & wife, forgetting about the divorce proceedings.we celebrated our 8yr anniversary mid september and the last week of september got the finalized papers in the mail.we have been living together as husband & wife since.his parents knew about the divorce proceedings,but none of my family knew at the time,only my dad & stepmom know now.only a couple of people that we know,know of the divorce.january of 2003 he told me he was seeing someone.i want us to stay together. are we legally divorced? he was living at a differt address than i when he filed,but we were back together before it was finalized. can i contest this or is it too late? or are we "common law"? if he leaves can i make him file again? can i take my boys this time? i don't want us to be over,but if it comes to that i want my kids! please help !!