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warhorse5
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What is the name of your state? Virginia
My husband and I have been experiencing up & downs for a time now...he has been abusive in the past. I am the main money winner in the family, and decided this year for my birthday to take a 2 day mini vacation by myself....while I was away...my son called to tell me my husband moved out. There has been no messages or notes or phone calls. He told my son he is never coming back. I cut my vacation short to come home to find that he only took the most expensive CD burner, DVD player and his clothers and our truck.
The house is in both of our names as is everything else the truck, my car, our accounts....he stopped his direct deposit so as get his last pay check and he has quit his job. I have no idea where he is and he threatened my son, that if i make a move to have him removed from the house deed, he would call my job and make up lies and make my life a living hell......what am i do?
I called the Bank where we have our loans and I can not remove myself from the Truck...the House is under The VHDA loan authority...can't sell or rent it without a tax penalty. He thinks I will continue to pay and keep his credit going while he rides free.
If this fair? What do I do? I make 40,000 a year and he only ever made 18,000 a year. I have always asked that he help more but he felt that was my problem, not his. I now have to pay the insurance also while he rides once again FREE. I need help fast. I am at a lost, can someone please direct me in the correct way. I have little money to pay bills that are due now and he knows I can not afford an attorney out right. Please advise!
My husband and I have been experiencing up & downs for a time now...he has been abusive in the past. I am the main money winner in the family, and decided this year for my birthday to take a 2 day mini vacation by myself....while I was away...my son called to tell me my husband moved out. There has been no messages or notes or phone calls. He told my son he is never coming back. I cut my vacation short to come home to find that he only took the most expensive CD burner, DVD player and his clothers and our truck.
The house is in both of our names as is everything else the truck, my car, our accounts....he stopped his direct deposit so as get his last pay check and he has quit his job. I have no idea where he is and he threatened my son, that if i make a move to have him removed from the house deed, he would call my job and make up lies and make my life a living hell......what am i do?
I called the Bank where we have our loans and I can not remove myself from the Truck...the House is under The VHDA loan authority...can't sell or rent it without a tax penalty. He thinks I will continue to pay and keep his credit going while he rides free.
If this fair? What do I do? I make 40,000 a year and he only ever made 18,000 a year. I have always asked that he help more but he felt that was my problem, not his. I now have to pay the insurance also while he rides once again FREE. I need help fast. I am at a lost, can someone please direct me in the correct way. I have little money to pay bills that are due now and he knows I can not afford an attorney out right. Please advise!