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Julia311
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What is the name of your state? Indiana
While moving from the house I and my (now) ex-boyfriend of 4 years shared, we had a dispute over property. It became physical starting with him grabbing my arms, but it flared from there. I felt I had to call police to come and control the situation so he would quit, and I could move my things. During the call, I explained that it had become physical. The officer on the scene only asked me if he had put his hands on me, and I replied "yes".
He asked my ex if he grabbed me, and he said "yes" as well, then he was arrested. I didn't want the man arrested. I spoke with the prosecuting attorney's office to try and tell them I had no intentions of pressing charges, nor did I feel the situation warrented his arrest. I filled out an affidavit saying as much, but they are going through with it anyway. He has never been violent before, and he is not the stereotypical "abuser". I just needed him to be gone long enough that I could get my stuff moved, but now both of our lives have been turned upside down. Is there anything I can do to get this dropped? Two things: The police officer never talked to me about the situation until after he arrested my ex. And two: The officer told me what to write on my statement. I need help... this man doesn't deserve what happened to him, and If I'd had any idea, I would never have called. Please help!!
While moving from the house I and my (now) ex-boyfriend of 4 years shared, we had a dispute over property. It became physical starting with him grabbing my arms, but it flared from there. I felt I had to call police to come and control the situation so he would quit, and I could move my things. During the call, I explained that it had become physical. The officer on the scene only asked me if he had put his hands on me, and I replied "yes".
He asked my ex if he grabbed me, and he said "yes" as well, then he was arrested. I didn't want the man arrested. I spoke with the prosecuting attorney's office to try and tell them I had no intentions of pressing charges, nor did I feel the situation warrented his arrest. I filled out an affidavit saying as much, but they are going through with it anyway. He has never been violent before, and he is not the stereotypical "abuser". I just needed him to be gone long enough that I could get my stuff moved, but now both of our lives have been turned upside down. Is there anything I can do to get this dropped? Two things: The police officer never talked to me about the situation until after he arrested my ex. And two: The officer told me what to write on my statement. I need help... this man doesn't deserve what happened to him, and If I'd had any idea, I would never have called. Please help!!