Thanks, Happy.
I tried all of that too... in Mass (don't know if that's where you were), all of the 'free' lawyers only work with battered women.. I've called all of them. I could do the 'reduced fee' - but I can't even manage that. I have seen the "Lawyer of the Day" at the court house who has helped me with the paperwork, but they keep telling me if it gets ugly, hire a lawyer...so that's no help! I don't have copies to the records, because we were already apart... I would have to request the hospital records through the court... but I may be able to get the police report, I guess. Thanks again!! If you think of anything else...let me know! Oh! Also - I'm not worried about them taking my son from me - I just don't want him to even have JOINT custody at this point. He's refusing therapy, and don't even want him to have visitation unless it's supervised.
Anyway - thanks!