NEED TO KNOW IF I AM HER FATHER

this is my problem, i had a relationship with this woman, she got pregnant first she told it was mine (she is still merried with a diferent person ) then her husband find out obout our relationship after about 3 yrs after the child or my kid i dont know is 3 1/2 years old now for all this time i was thinkin she was my kid, now she is saying the child is his, (may be because she doesnt want him to leave her, she told him it is his) and this is killing me not to be able to know, been in a doubt. i still talk to her on the phone and everytime we talk about this she gets upset like she doesnt want me to know, i think she is hiding the real thruth in her favor and i dont think its right. so was wondering if there is any way that i can make her test the little girl, do i have any Legal right to know even she doesnt want it?. Should i take her to court or what can i do?? please help me i am dieing to know and is affecting my life. please help???

If you have been paying child support, you may have the right to contest the support payments and request a paternity test.

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