<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by uagirl2000:
My daughter is 1 yr old. Her father has seen her once and hasn't called since I asked him if he planned to support her many months ago. His parents saw her once, sent a Christmas card, and that's it. I ran into them today. They asked when a good weekend would be to bring her birthday gifts. I haven't sued for support because that would give him visitation and I don't want her to suffer through an in and out type of father. I will probably sue him in the future if he will not give up his rights to her. My question is should I deny his parents ( and even him) visitation or will that come back to haunt me? Keep in mind that they only surface every 6 months are so, and never call to check on her. Any other advice on how to handle the situation is welcome.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
My response:
First, child support and visitation are two, distinct matters, and exercising a right of visitation has NO BEARING WHATSOEVER on whether a parent has paid child support.
Second, it would behoove you to nurture a relationship with your child's grandparents; encouraging them to spend time. A child needs such nurturing and love. Seeing a child should never be held "hostage" in order to obtain something else. Your child will eventually thank you. Think of the child's well-being for a change, and not your own. I realize that child rearing doesn't come with an instruction manual, but common sense should prevail no matter what YOUR feelings might be about the father or his parents.
IAAL
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[This message has been edited by I AM ALWAYS LIABLE (edited April 24, 2000).]