<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by solitaire59:
Hubby is having online affairs & cybersex. Have hardcopy evidence. Can i get a divorce on the grounds of adultery? HELP!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
I'm not sure what the legal aspects of cybersex would be. I would think that would fall under irreconsilable differences though! I am however disturbed by the other reply to your question. I think you will find a large majority of us women feel as if cybersex/internet porn is "cheating" & joining in is fine for some. But unfortunately even if you joined in occasionally, he'd probably be doing alone also. And, I'm quite sure we all know that when are men are "whacking off" to other women, we are FAR from their minds. In my opinion this creates HUGE distances in marriages, love & closeness in a relationship. I'm quite sure in the next several years we will see vast numbers of marriages & relationships destroyed by this, probably more than anyone can imagine because it is still largely "in the closet" and too embarrassing to talk about with others. But, I guarantee you that most women feel the same way as you about it and it will only get worse in the future. It is selfish, disrespectful and causes distance in most relationships. When will these men get it? I'm with you girl & there are millions more of us out there too!