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Jason22
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Hello. I have a few questions and I am hoping that I may be able to find sound advice and direction in this forum. The situation:
I am a 22 year old father of a 26 month old daughter, Katie. I live in South Carolina and the mother lives in Virginia... a 5 hour distance.
Both mother and I are not together but share joint legal custody of Katie and I have supervised visitation. Unfortunately, I am only able to visit my daughter every weekend, because I am unable to take great lengths of time off of work.
Because of this, I have requested to the mother if it would be possible to allow me to care for Katie for a week or so in SC so that not only would the father-daughter bond remain, but also that I may share in my responsibilities as a parent. The mother declined and would not approve of such visit. She has in the past though allowed me once to bring Katie to SC alone for a week, there was absolutely no problem at all, and Katie greatly enjoyed her visit, as I did also.
Because the mother has become uncooperable, through emails and failure to even call me or even send me any letters about Katie (I always called first and wrote letters to her, receiving none in return), I filed for joint physical custody through the court system in Virginia.
I do pay child support on a very regular basis and I am soon going to get an apartment with a separate bedroom for Katie (so that she would have a suitable place to stay) - I currently am living with my parents for another month. I do visit a weekend every month, but each visit has been dealt with frustration from the mother that my very presence is an annoyance to her, the mother. (this makes me feel bad and helps alienate me from my daughter, who I greatly miss and want to see).
I am unable to afford a lawyer, so I have been doing great research on the Internet. And have found some helpful answers to my questions.
A question that does seem the greatest though, do you feel I have a strong case? Is it likely due to me living out-of-state that I could be denied of my request? What is a feasible joint physical plan to share with the other parent (every other two weeks? is what I'm considering of requesting).
I do thank all for reading this very serious event in my life. It's unfortunate that a little girl's best interests are at stake and I feel that with proper knowledge, advice, and love, that those interests could be protected.
Thank You. If you have any further questions, please ask, I will definitely be reading postings on a daily basis. Again, thank you.
-Jason
I am a 22 year old father of a 26 month old daughter, Katie. I live in South Carolina and the mother lives in Virginia... a 5 hour distance.
Both mother and I are not together but share joint legal custody of Katie and I have supervised visitation. Unfortunately, I am only able to visit my daughter every weekend, because I am unable to take great lengths of time off of work.
Because of this, I have requested to the mother if it would be possible to allow me to care for Katie for a week or so in SC so that not only would the father-daughter bond remain, but also that I may share in my responsibilities as a parent. The mother declined and would not approve of such visit. She has in the past though allowed me once to bring Katie to SC alone for a week, there was absolutely no problem at all, and Katie greatly enjoyed her visit, as I did also.
Because the mother has become uncooperable, through emails and failure to even call me or even send me any letters about Katie (I always called first and wrote letters to her, receiving none in return), I filed for joint physical custody through the court system in Virginia.
I do pay child support on a very regular basis and I am soon going to get an apartment with a separate bedroom for Katie (so that she would have a suitable place to stay) - I currently am living with my parents for another month. I do visit a weekend every month, but each visit has been dealt with frustration from the mother that my very presence is an annoyance to her, the mother. (this makes me feel bad and helps alienate me from my daughter, who I greatly miss and want to see).
I am unable to afford a lawyer, so I have been doing great research on the Internet. And have found some helpful answers to my questions.
A question that does seem the greatest though, do you feel I have a strong case? Is it likely due to me living out-of-state that I could be denied of my request? What is a feasible joint physical plan to share with the other parent (every other two weeks? is what I'm considering of requesting).
I do thank all for reading this very serious event in my life. It's unfortunate that a little girl's best interests are at stake and I feel that with proper knowledge, advice, and love, that those interests could be protected.
Thank You. If you have any further questions, please ask, I will definitely be reading postings on a daily basis. Again, thank you.
-Jason