So, is this abuse? Legal help needed now

What is the name of your state? IN.
hey, again. Well, he told me today everything is 50/50.
he also said the computer is not mine. that he did not give it to me for my birthday. even though i tried to find the original receipt that i put in a folder. it is dated on my birthdate.
now, he is saying i am having an affair. i don't even want to talk to a man much less see one. i am so ill over what he has told me. he won't even go grocery shopping unless i am with him.
he said, guess we won't have food.
is this abuse?

What is it you're trying to accomplish?

To Accomplish Separation by being legal

I am trying to accomplish a safe get away
from this abusive type of marriage.
I am trying to accomplish legal opinion
on what is legally mine to take with me
when I move on Nov. 20th.
Can he take me off his insurance?
Is he in the right for taking money that is both of ours?
Is he bound legally to half everything when in a legal separtion?
earlybird.