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What is the name of your state?
I live in Missouri, where the divorce took place.
Eight years ago, my ex-wife and I divorced. We made an oral agreement to reduce the court-ordered child support I was to pay(to 1/2), as her income was better than mine at the time, and we felt it unfair. Over the years, she has never asked for me to pay more and I have paid the agreed upon amount expeditiously.
Last week, her attorney contacted me and informed me that her husband (the guy she had the affair with and caused the divorce in the first place!) wishes to adopt our son. The attorney further stated that they would seek the difference of nearly $30,000.00 in child support that I would have paid if her and I would not have made the agreement. I know that this can be done without effort. He went on to state that they would increase my support in the future if I did not agree to this adoption.
Due to extenuationg circumstances, and to make a long story shorter, I have little contact with my son. A few phone calls a year and exchanging cards on holidays, personal contact about twice a year.
My question is this: If I agree to the adoption, and once the adoption is final, can my ex-wife seek the difference in the child support I paid over the last eight years, and the amount ordered?
Any help in this matter would be appreciated... thanks
I live in Missouri, where the divorce took place.
Eight years ago, my ex-wife and I divorced. We made an oral agreement to reduce the court-ordered child support I was to pay(to 1/2), as her income was better than mine at the time, and we felt it unfair. Over the years, she has never asked for me to pay more and I have paid the agreed upon amount expeditiously.
Last week, her attorney contacted me and informed me that her husband (the guy she had the affair with and caused the divorce in the first place!) wishes to adopt our son. The attorney further stated that they would seek the difference of nearly $30,000.00 in child support that I would have paid if her and I would not have made the agreement. I know that this can be done without effort. He went on to state that they would increase my support in the future if I did not agree to this adoption.
Due to extenuationg circumstances, and to make a long story shorter, I have little contact with my son. A few phone calls a year and exchanging cards on holidays, personal contact about twice a year.
My question is this: If I agree to the adoption, and once the adoption is final, can my ex-wife seek the difference in the child support I paid over the last eight years, and the amount ordered?
Any help in this matter would be appreciated... thanks