The time you have for your protective order to be served is up until the date and time of your court hearing. If the order can not be served by that time you will have to attempt to redo the entire process. I just was granted my protective order and I was fortunate enough to be able to have my order served the same day. Your copy of the order will have all the information that you need. I would suggest writing out exact dates, time (if possible), and details of every incident between you and the defendant. This way you will be able to show the court that you have reasonable fear of your physical or emotional well fare that can only be protected if the defendant is restrained. Don't give up because you aren't sure it will be granted. You can not let the defendant win!