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What is the name of your state? Missouri
Hi. I loan $900 to a friend of mine back in the summer of 2002. It has almost been two years. I loaned the $ to her in three ATM cash withdraws ($200,$300,$200) and one check ($200). I just talked with the bank and they are mailing me the bank statements for that period and a copy of the cancelled check. I have been trying to collect from her and she said she'll pay me but everytime I do get a hold of her she says she doesn't have the $ now. She doesn't return my phone calls to her cell phone but I can reach her at her work and I can visit her at her apt. We live in two cities 1 1/2 hours apart. I rarely go back to the city where she lives and when I do I tend to forget to pay her a visit. The last time I visited her was in October 2003 and I got her to sign a piece of paper that says, "I agree to pay (my name) $900 over the period of one year from November 2003 to November 2004 in $100 intervals per month." It is signed by both of us and dated 10-14-03. I have not told her yet that I will take her to court if she doesn't pay me soon, but I have not got any $ from her at all. I even called her at work a couple months ago and gave her my bank account # over the phone so she could make payments to me by deposit at my bank branch in her hometown. I also called a local lawyer and he says that his fees are $500 and suggests that I do it on my own.
The questions I have are:
How much time after the initial loan do I have to file claim? Is there a website or somewhere I should contact about fnding out the specific time period for the state of Missouri?
Do I have enough evidence to take her to court by myself? Should I try to get more evidence by having her sign a more legal document that the one I wrote up and had her sign? If so, what other things should I list on the document? Should I try to get a recording of her saying that she owes me $900? She knows and tells me that she owes me the $, she does not deny it, but I'm afraid if it does go to court she may try denying it. Is it legal for me to secretly tape a conversation with her and getting her to admit that she owes me the $ so I have more proof for court?
Is there an easier way to collect $ from her rather than taking her to court? I would like there to be a way where I could give her a legal document and have her start payments without the hassles of court and if she fails to pay I will take her to court.
If I do take her to court and they rule that she owes me the $900, how will they make her pay? Payments or one lump sum? If she fails to pay does she go to jail?
The problems are that I have been too lenient with her and I am afraid that if I take her to court she won't be able to pay or she will deny the whole claim - that is why I want to get as much evidence before I mention to her that I will take her to court.
Sorry for the long post. Thanks for any advice!!
-David
Hi. I loan $900 to a friend of mine back in the summer of 2002. It has almost been two years. I loaned the $ to her in three ATM cash withdraws ($200,$300,$200) and one check ($200). I just talked with the bank and they are mailing me the bank statements for that period and a copy of the cancelled check. I have been trying to collect from her and she said she'll pay me but everytime I do get a hold of her she says she doesn't have the $ now. She doesn't return my phone calls to her cell phone but I can reach her at her work and I can visit her at her apt. We live in two cities 1 1/2 hours apart. I rarely go back to the city where she lives and when I do I tend to forget to pay her a visit. The last time I visited her was in October 2003 and I got her to sign a piece of paper that says, "I agree to pay (my name) $900 over the period of one year from November 2003 to November 2004 in $100 intervals per month." It is signed by both of us and dated 10-14-03. I have not told her yet that I will take her to court if she doesn't pay me soon, but I have not got any $ from her at all. I even called her at work a couple months ago and gave her my bank account # over the phone so she could make payments to me by deposit at my bank branch in her hometown. I also called a local lawyer and he says that his fees are $500 and suggests that I do it on my own.
The questions I have are:
How much time after the initial loan do I have to file claim? Is there a website or somewhere I should contact about fnding out the specific time period for the state of Missouri?
Do I have enough evidence to take her to court by myself? Should I try to get more evidence by having her sign a more legal document that the one I wrote up and had her sign? If so, what other things should I list on the document? Should I try to get a recording of her saying that she owes me $900? She knows and tells me that she owes me the $, she does not deny it, but I'm afraid if it does go to court she may try denying it. Is it legal for me to secretly tape a conversation with her and getting her to admit that she owes me the $ so I have more proof for court?
Is there an easier way to collect $ from her rather than taking her to court? I would like there to be a way where I could give her a legal document and have her start payments without the hassles of court and if she fails to pay I will take her to court.
If I do take her to court and they rule that she owes me the $900, how will they make her pay? Payments or one lump sum? If she fails to pay does she go to jail?
The problems are that I have been too lenient with her and I am afraid that if I take her to court she won't be able to pay or she will deny the whole claim - that is why I want to get as much evidence before I mention to her that I will take her to court.
Sorry for the long post. Thanks for any advice!!
-David