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bernard
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I live in virginia and my ex-wife lives in louisiana. And I havent seen my kids w/in the last year and I call my kids(3)at least 3 or 4 times a week.They are 8,6,and 4 and she does not allow them to call or even write me. This has been a on going problem for me since we got divorce 3yrs ago. We have joint custody of the kids,but I chose to move to get a better education and she knew this.But she was also harassing me alot in louisiana.She also is always telling my kids that I do not want to see or speak to my kids.How do I know this? My oldest dght is always telling me this.And beside the point I was going to meet her in Atlanta to pick up the kids and she still said no,she wants me to pay for everything and still send her the full amount in support.I pay 705.00,but I only make 10.19hr and she makes 8.50 hr but I am trying to go for a reduction due to the fact that i have a 15 month dght.And me and the mother are working things out on my dght support, which is good communication bwt the 2 of us. But on the other hand I just want to have a relationship with my kids,before I left louisiana it was fine but I am not going to base my life around my ex-wife. When I have been paying support willing on my own and I am not behind so what can I do to try to gain custody of my kids.Knowing that my ex have a violent temper and I also have the police rpts to prove that she is,what kind of motion do i file for and what are my chances of me getting custody?