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gimlet
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undefinedWhat is the name of your state? Florida
Hi, I have a question.
I am married to active duty military husband for a little over 4 years.
He's been irresponsible on finance, as well as online afairs, now he wants to separate.
I agreed to separate, but I have concerns.
I make only little over 1000dollars everymonth(working full time), and he makes 3 times as much as I make, plus about 4000+ bonus.
I have 2 children, one is not his(8years old), one is his(almost 4 years old).
Since I make less money and will be keeping the kids, he'd pay child support, and I am asking for alimony also. how much would it be properiate for him to pay me every month?
another thing is my daughter. Her biological dad has been out of her life since she was a year old, he gave up all his rights. Ever since me and my husband got together, my husband is the only one "dad" for her and only one provider for her (I was stay-at-home mom for 2 years after we got married.) He claimed her as his dependant to military also, we just got around and do the adoption prosess legaly.
Do you guys think it can be possible for court to order him childsupport for her also?
I am not trying to screw my husband over, I never wanted divorce or separation, it's his idea, so I feel that the kids should get everything now, after we get separated, including my daughter, and it'll be extremely difficult for me to give that.
Any infomation/insites will be greatly appriciated!
Thank you,
gimlet
Hi, I have a question.
I am married to active duty military husband for a little over 4 years.
He's been irresponsible on finance, as well as online afairs, now he wants to separate.
I agreed to separate, but I have concerns.
I make only little over 1000dollars everymonth(working full time), and he makes 3 times as much as I make, plus about 4000+ bonus.
I have 2 children, one is not his(8years old), one is his(almost 4 years old).
Since I make less money and will be keeping the kids, he'd pay child support, and I am asking for alimony also. how much would it be properiate for him to pay me every month?
another thing is my daughter. Her biological dad has been out of her life since she was a year old, he gave up all his rights. Ever since me and my husband got together, my husband is the only one "dad" for her and only one provider for her (I was stay-at-home mom for 2 years after we got married.) He claimed her as his dependant to military also, we just got around and do the adoption prosess legaly.
Do you guys think it can be possible for court to order him childsupport for her also?
I am not trying to screw my husband over, I never wanted divorce or separation, it's his idea, so I feel that the kids should get everything now, after we get separated, including my daughter, and it'll be extremely difficult for me to give that.
Any infomation/insites will be greatly appriciated!
Thank you,
gimlet