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sammied
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What is the name of your state? I live in California and recently posted about my child modification and my x being self employed. Well I had asked in my papers for him to pay half of all extra circular activities and his Lawer stated that he should not as it could be a slippery slope...meaning I could enroll them in so many activities that he would have to pay a substanial amount of money.(I am superwoman you know) Anyways, can someone help me with a response to that.
Also, his Lawyer brought up transportation to facilitate visitation, asking that the X drive to my town and pick up are children for his visitation and then when his visitation is over for me to drive to his town to pick them up. Well would't this be an issue of Visitation and not child support modification? Also, his uncle drops them off 80% of the time, not him. Aside from the fact that there is no way I could afford to do that, could I tell the judge how he donates 2.22 to a prisoner everytime someone buys something from him and that he could use that to facilitate transportation?
And last, (sorry guys) if the boys who are 10 and 12 choose not to go with him the weekend he wants them does that make the next weekend his? Or would it still be mine? I have alot of questions regarding this. Recently my kids decided to have a sleep over and didn't want to go to there dads, I will not make them go if they don't want to, but I am worried that he will think that I am making them not go. I feel bad, cause now this weekend one wants to go and the other doesn't but I told him he should. What to do?
Also, his Lawyer brought up transportation to facilitate visitation, asking that the X drive to my town and pick up are children for his visitation and then when his visitation is over for me to drive to his town to pick them up. Well would't this be an issue of Visitation and not child support modification? Also, his uncle drops them off 80% of the time, not him. Aside from the fact that there is no way I could afford to do that, could I tell the judge how he donates 2.22 to a prisoner everytime someone buys something from him and that he could use that to facilitate transportation?
And last, (sorry guys) if the boys who are 10 and 12 choose not to go with him the weekend he wants them does that make the next weekend his? Or would it still be mine? I have alot of questions regarding this. Recently my kids decided to have a sleep over and didn't want to go to there dads, I will not make them go if they don't want to, but I am worried that he will think that I am making them not go. I feel bad, cause now this weekend one wants to go and the other doesn't but I told him he should. What to do?