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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? TN
just wondering what the possible scenarios would be for this situation.
we have 3 kids, ages, 7, 11, 14. I am trying to get my spouse to agree to split joint physical/legal custody of the kids, 50/50. and with no child support to either of us from the other. our 14 year old might choose to not spend much or possible any time with me because she considers me too strict and my spouse let's her do practically what she wants. I am fine with that as long as I would not have to pay anything to my spouse if she chooses not to spend time with me. believe me, I want her to, but I'm not sure if I could force her to spend time with me.
I would be giving my spouse the house, the equity in it, leaving most of our furnishings, providing medical/dental coverage for the kids, paying $600 up front per year for all medications/copays/medical bills, then after that we would split them 50/50. we have 3 vehicles, 1 is paid for, the other 2 have loans of 3 and 4.5 years on them, I would be taking the vehicles and the payments of those vehicles, leaving her the auto that is paid off free and clear, I will be paying for the kids school lunches. the only debt that my spouse will have would be the house payment and a small school loan payment.
so my question/concern in a nutshell is that I want split joint physical/legal custody of all my kids, 50/50 time, I even want it with my 14 year old (I've heard once they get over a certain age they can possibly refuse to have to go with me?, I don't want that, just not sure if that's possibly an option for my 14 year old). so if we agree in the divorce uncontested to those terms, would a judge still possibly make me pay child support, 1) assuming all 3 kids would spend 50/50 time with me, and 2) if my 14 year old would not have to go with me for the 50/50 time.
I make about twice as much as my spouse. she could get a better job (she has a college degree) but won't. don't know if that ever factors into an equation or not.
hope this isn't too confusing.
thanks!
just wondering what the possible scenarios would be for this situation.
we have 3 kids, ages, 7, 11, 14. I am trying to get my spouse to agree to split joint physical/legal custody of the kids, 50/50. and with no child support to either of us from the other. our 14 year old might choose to not spend much or possible any time with me because she considers me too strict and my spouse let's her do practically what she wants. I am fine with that as long as I would not have to pay anything to my spouse if she chooses not to spend time with me. believe me, I want her to, but I'm not sure if I could force her to spend time with me.
I would be giving my spouse the house, the equity in it, leaving most of our furnishings, providing medical/dental coverage for the kids, paying $600 up front per year for all medications/copays/medical bills, then after that we would split them 50/50. we have 3 vehicles, 1 is paid for, the other 2 have loans of 3 and 4.5 years on them, I would be taking the vehicles and the payments of those vehicles, leaving her the auto that is paid off free and clear, I will be paying for the kids school lunches. the only debt that my spouse will have would be the house payment and a small school loan payment.
so my question/concern in a nutshell is that I want split joint physical/legal custody of all my kids, 50/50 time, I even want it with my 14 year old (I've heard once they get over a certain age they can possibly refuse to have to go with me?, I don't want that, just not sure if that's possibly an option for my 14 year old). so if we agree in the divorce uncontested to those terms, would a judge still possibly make me pay child support, 1) assuming all 3 kids would spend 50/50 time with me, and 2) if my 14 year old would not have to go with me for the 50/50 time.
I make about twice as much as my spouse. she could get a better job (she has a college degree) but won't. don't know if that ever factors into an equation or not.
hope this isn't too confusing.
thanks!