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What is the name of your state? California
I'm not really sure what the most apt term would be, but my situation is this: I'm 17 years old, and I'll be turning 18 next month on the 12th of July. I live with my mother, her boyfriend, and my younger brother. Earlier this year, I dropped out of school and got my GED. I've been working full time and have saved up some money for when I plan on moving out, the day of my 18th birthday. After that, I want to enroll myself in college, change my last name, and begin living my life, freed from her toxic presence.
Without going into the unnecessary details of our relationsip, my mother and I don't get along, haven't for years, and I just want to be completely separated from her as thoroughly as possible.
My reasons for wanting to sever any ties I have with her are primarily personal, but I'm also concerned about how exactly she may still affect or be able to affect me legally despite my being 18, and I'd like to take care of those possible problems as soon as I can. Also, I'm not sure about the details of this, but, If I understand, I won't be recognized as financially independent until I'm 25, which could serve as a problem if I ever need financial aid because she makes a pretty decent wage.
What can I do in order to remove myself utterly from her? Any help would be really appreciated.
I'm not really sure what the most apt term would be, but my situation is this: I'm 17 years old, and I'll be turning 18 next month on the 12th of July. I live with my mother, her boyfriend, and my younger brother. Earlier this year, I dropped out of school and got my GED. I've been working full time and have saved up some money for when I plan on moving out, the day of my 18th birthday. After that, I want to enroll myself in college, change my last name, and begin living my life, freed from her toxic presence.
Without going into the unnecessary details of our relationsip, my mother and I don't get along, haven't for years, and I just want to be completely separated from her as thoroughly as possible.
My reasons for wanting to sever any ties I have with her are primarily personal, but I'm also concerned about how exactly she may still affect or be able to affect me legally despite my being 18, and I'd like to take care of those possible problems as soon as I can. Also, I'm not sure about the details of this, but, If I understand, I won't be recognized as financially independent until I'm 25, which could serve as a problem if I ever need financial aid because she makes a pretty decent wage.
What can I do in order to remove myself utterly from her? Any help would be really appreciated.