Bedrockpebbles
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?AL.
The divorce and child custody took place in Ohio in "97". I have paid my child support all along. Now the problem is that they have sent me my son back in Dec. of 2002, he was 16 at that time for me to straighten out. Well I have done all this and he will be graduating next spring and will be 18 come this Aug.
Now the problem is that the state of Ohio is still coming after me for child support and they do take my federal income tax refund and non of this monies is being returned to me by me ex husband. I have cried, screamed, talked till I'm blue in the face here. I have a notarized statement from the Ex stating that he is giving me custody of my son. I am told that until I can get back thru the courts I will continue paying child support to the ex until my son is out of college. I can't get a lawyer in the state of Ohio to even touch this case as my son is so close to 18. Any paper work I have sent to the courts trying to do a change of custody gets returned as the wording is wrong.
Also in the almost 2 yrs. since my son has lived with me I have received no help from his father in any kind of support. I support my son on my own with no help from the government or anything. As I am willing to work and make my way through this world. I have paid for all of his sports and drivers liscense and his truck and his insurance and the upkeep on this. If I ask his dad to help out little anything that might ease my load up a little, he all of sudden has to get off the phone.
Any suggestions or leading me in the right direction is greatly appreciated.
Pebbles in AL.
I have read all the earlier post's as to my situation and can't seem to find one female in my position here.
The divorce and child custody took place in Ohio in "97". I have paid my child support all along. Now the problem is that they have sent me my son back in Dec. of 2002, he was 16 at that time for me to straighten out. Well I have done all this and he will be graduating next spring and will be 18 come this Aug.
Now the problem is that the state of Ohio is still coming after me for child support and they do take my federal income tax refund and non of this monies is being returned to me by me ex husband. I have cried, screamed, talked till I'm blue in the face here. I have a notarized statement from the Ex stating that he is giving me custody of my son. I am told that until I can get back thru the courts I will continue paying child support to the ex until my son is out of college. I can't get a lawyer in the state of Ohio to even touch this case as my son is so close to 18. Any paper work I have sent to the courts trying to do a change of custody gets returned as the wording is wrong.
Also in the almost 2 yrs. since my son has lived with me I have received no help from his father in any kind of support. I support my son on my own with no help from the government or anything. As I am willing to work and make my way through this world. I have paid for all of his sports and drivers liscense and his truck and his insurance and the upkeep on this. If I ask his dad to help out little anything that might ease my load up a little, he all of sudden has to get off the phone.
Any suggestions or leading me in the right direction is greatly appreciated.
Pebbles in AL.
I have read all the earlier post's as to my situation and can't seem to find one female in my position here.