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TheRake
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What is the name of your state? GA, IL and UCMJ
I discovered that my wife is involved with another man (who is also married) and they are planning on divorcing their spouses and keeping their affair a secret so they can keep half the assets.
My wife and I live in GA and the man lives in IL and is an active duty marine currently deployed to Iraq.
I discovered that they were in love in at least November and have seen each other on three occasions since then: The first time is when my wife and I visited my mother in IL on Thanksgiving. My wife took off that Friday to "go shopping" and was gone all day. The second time was the weekend before Christmas, when she took off for a few days after a fight. The third was the beginning of January, when she took off one day and was gone until the early morning hours.
How do I know? Because I have been able to view some emails between my wife and the marine. I found that she as a cell phone that she's been keeping secret from me, a PO Box, and a lockbox containing all of the letters, gifts, etc. from the marine. So when I had the opportunity, I had a locksmith make me a key for it. In it, I found pictures, letters, cards, the cell phone, and a CD-R. On the CD-R were pictures. And when pictures are taken with a digital camera, it records the date & time in the file. I found pictures of them together on the times that I suspected. That weekend in December, she drove all the way to Illinois to see him. And it appears they were only together for a short time on Jan 03. Evidently, she drove part way and he met her. It looks like a rest area on I-57 in Southern Illinois where they met and took pictures together.
How do I know they had sex together? In one of the letters I found in the lock box, he states that the two days they had together were magical, and that he loved waking up with her next to him. In another email, he stated that he loved making love to her.
Will this evidence be enough in court to prove adultery occurred?
Also, they talk about how they long to see each other and how they will be married soon. And he mentions how he is planning their future and how he has to be careful areound his wife as to not raise any suspicions so he can walk away with 50%. He also talks about how he is looking forward to raising MY CHILDREN! And he and his wife have three of their own already!
My wife and this marine are scumbags to the nth degree. How can they be so selfish and manipulative? Hell, I just paid $8000 for a china cabinet and dining room table for my wife a few months ago. Now I know why she wanted it. Neither one of them know that I know everything that has been going on. But once I file for divorce, I will make sure his wife gets all the same evidence that I have gotten, as well as his commanding officer. Hopefully he'll get busted. I'd like to see him get an other than honorable discharge and lose his pension. He's got about 4 or 5 years before he gets in 20 years.
Do you think I'll make it through this divorce with my kids and most of my assets? Do I have enough evidence to prove adultery?
I discovered that my wife is involved with another man (who is also married) and they are planning on divorcing their spouses and keeping their affair a secret so they can keep half the assets.
My wife and I live in GA and the man lives in IL and is an active duty marine currently deployed to Iraq.
I discovered that they were in love in at least November and have seen each other on three occasions since then: The first time is when my wife and I visited my mother in IL on Thanksgiving. My wife took off that Friday to "go shopping" and was gone all day. The second time was the weekend before Christmas, when she took off for a few days after a fight. The third was the beginning of January, when she took off one day and was gone until the early morning hours.
How do I know? Because I have been able to view some emails between my wife and the marine. I found that she as a cell phone that she's been keeping secret from me, a PO Box, and a lockbox containing all of the letters, gifts, etc. from the marine. So when I had the opportunity, I had a locksmith make me a key for it. In it, I found pictures, letters, cards, the cell phone, and a CD-R. On the CD-R were pictures. And when pictures are taken with a digital camera, it records the date & time in the file. I found pictures of them together on the times that I suspected. That weekend in December, she drove all the way to Illinois to see him. And it appears they were only together for a short time on Jan 03. Evidently, she drove part way and he met her. It looks like a rest area on I-57 in Southern Illinois where they met and took pictures together.
How do I know they had sex together? In one of the letters I found in the lock box, he states that the two days they had together were magical, and that he loved waking up with her next to him. In another email, he stated that he loved making love to her.
Will this evidence be enough in court to prove adultery occurred?
Also, they talk about how they long to see each other and how they will be married soon. And he mentions how he is planning their future and how he has to be careful areound his wife as to not raise any suspicions so he can walk away with 50%. He also talks about how he is looking forward to raising MY CHILDREN! And he and his wife have three of their own already!
My wife and this marine are scumbags to the nth degree. How can they be so selfish and manipulative? Hell, I just paid $8000 for a china cabinet and dining room table for my wife a few months ago. Now I know why she wanted it. Neither one of them know that I know everything that has been going on. But once I file for divorce, I will make sure his wife gets all the same evidence that I have gotten, as well as his commanding officer. Hopefully he'll get busted. I'd like to see him get an other than honorable discharge and lose his pension. He's got about 4 or 5 years before he gets in 20 years.
Do you think I'll make it through this divorce with my kids and most of my assets? Do I have enough evidence to prove adultery?