in wisconsin,
while on the phone last night with my wifes ex, describing a medical problem to him about one of his boys, i told him we had taken him to the ER to get looked at for what looked to be minor seizures.( i say this only because i have a seizure problem and i know what some look like). i had told him that he was to be followed up by his pediatrician, he told me that "there must be something going on at our house because he has no problems while they are at his house",( now the only difference is that they get to actually run around in our yard,which he seems to have these "symptoms" more while doing so). now the ex told me that he is broke and doesn't have the money to take HIS child to the doctor and see's no need to since he doesn't do this there and that " he is just looking for attention". i told him its a bunch of BS and that if the ER doc thought he should be checked out further that i feel he should after all i was being nice enough to contact him about it out of concern for the child. i offered to give him gas money he refused and started yelling at me over the phone, i listened didn't say anything until he was done then Kindly reminded him that he was already in contempt of a court order for the money he owes his ex-wife, to whaich he said no i'm not, and i don't have to pay it because i'm not working.
any thought's or advice on this? ( my wife goes to court today for child support against us so she was curious. also we have documented things for the past 3 yrs.
thanks in advance.
speed
while on the phone last night with my wifes ex, describing a medical problem to him about one of his boys, i told him we had taken him to the ER to get looked at for what looked to be minor seizures.( i say this only because i have a seizure problem and i know what some look like). i had told him that he was to be followed up by his pediatrician, he told me that "there must be something going on at our house because he has no problems while they are at his house",( now the only difference is that they get to actually run around in our yard,which he seems to have these "symptoms" more while doing so). now the ex told me that he is broke and doesn't have the money to take HIS child to the doctor and see's no need to since he doesn't do this there and that " he is just looking for attention". i told him its a bunch of BS and that if the ER doc thought he should be checked out further that i feel he should after all i was being nice enough to contact him about it out of concern for the child. i offered to give him gas money he refused and started yelling at me over the phone, i listened didn't say anything until he was done then Kindly reminded him that he was already in contempt of a court order for the money he owes his ex-wife, to whaich he said no i'm not, and i don't have to pay it because i'm not working.
any thought's or advice on this? ( my wife goes to court today for child support against us so she was curious. also we have documented things for the past 3 yrs.
thanks in advance.
speed