childrenRpeople
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What is the name of your state? CA
I left my ex 9 months ago, taking our 2 year old son with me.
He was going through some sort of mental imbalance, was very aggressive, drinking heavily and using drugs. The medical records have been subpoenaed (sp?) and show all of this.
My ex has now been clean for 4 months and is wanting joint custodies with at 50% of time with our son. He earns less than I do.
I have two questions:
It is my understanding that if the judge rules in his favor, I may have to pay him child support?
What is the likelihood of him getting 50% time with our son given his recent issues with drug abuse, alcohol abuse and anger problems (I have a r. order against him...he has threatened to slit my throat and bury me in the desert)?
It just doesn't seem consistent that I moved myself and our son away to protect us from this man's destructive behaviors, he cleans up for 4 months and may get joint custodies, spousal support and child support.
Please lend perspective.
I left my ex 9 months ago, taking our 2 year old son with me.
He was going through some sort of mental imbalance, was very aggressive, drinking heavily and using drugs. The medical records have been subpoenaed (sp?) and show all of this.
My ex has now been clean for 4 months and is wanting joint custodies with at 50% of time with our son. He earns less than I do.
I have two questions:
It is my understanding that if the judge rules in his favor, I may have to pay him child support?
What is the likelihood of him getting 50% time with our son given his recent issues with drug abuse, alcohol abuse and anger problems (I have a r. order against him...he has threatened to slit my throat and bury me in the desert)?
It just doesn't seem consistent that I moved myself and our son away to protect us from this man's destructive behaviors, he cleans up for 4 months and may get joint custodies, spousal support and child support.
Please lend perspective.