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starly33
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What is the name of your state?Ca
My ex wanted to pay less child support, so it was ordered he spend 35% with the kids & his support was lowered. That was 1 yr. ago, he has not complied at all with the visitation schedule. This past year they have spent a night here or there with him at his convenience. Can he be held in Contempt? Also he is Physically & Verbally abusive with them. He never leaves marks on them. But they have come home and told me & I have also witnessed it myself. Their ages are 11 & 9 and they both have told me they don't want to go with him anymore. They have said they want to talk to the judge about how he is acts with them. Will a judge listen to what they say? I recently lost my job & collecting Unemployment. I am struggling financially and I want to know if it is possible to get an Emergency hearing for Child Support increase. We stand the chance of losing our home if I don't get some help now. I have asked him to help with Utilities & groceries and he has agreed, then tells me later on that he is not going to pay my bills and I need to figure it out on my own. He says it is not his responsibilty and he then refuses to help me. Can I do anything about this?
My ex wanted to pay less child support, so it was ordered he spend 35% with the kids & his support was lowered. That was 1 yr. ago, he has not complied at all with the visitation schedule. This past year they have spent a night here or there with him at his convenience. Can he be held in Contempt? Also he is Physically & Verbally abusive with them. He never leaves marks on them. But they have come home and told me & I have also witnessed it myself. Their ages are 11 & 9 and they both have told me they don't want to go with him anymore. They have said they want to talk to the judge about how he is acts with them. Will a judge listen to what they say? I recently lost my job & collecting Unemployment. I am struggling financially and I want to know if it is possible to get an Emergency hearing for Child Support increase. We stand the chance of losing our home if I don't get some help now. I have asked him to help with Utilities & groceries and he has agreed, then tells me later on that he is not going to pay my bills and I need to figure it out on my own. He says it is not his responsibilty and he then refuses to help me. Can I do anything about this?