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I thank you in advance for any help or advice offered.
I reside in Massachusetts. I'll give a brief background of my case and what has transpired since.
When I was 11-13 years old, I lived at a residential school here in MA. While there, I was repeatedly sexually abused by one of the teachers. I am 42 years of age now and only recently have begun to understand the damage that was caused by the abuse.
In an effort to reslove the issues of my past, I had been searching for some time to find my abuser so that I could confront him and, hopefully, get some form of explanation that might put some of those issues behind me.
I did finally locate him and contacted him at work. He was, to say the least, very surprised to hear from me, although he did seem as though he was willing to speak to me since he told me that I had reached him at an inconvenient time and to call him a few days later, at his office, at a specific time. When I did, I got his voicemail so I left a message for him to return the call. He did not. I thought that perhaps he had somehow missed my message so I called him again, at his office and at home. He did not respond. Over a six week period I called him a total of 9 times, leaving non-threatening but increasingly irritated messages each time.
I finally realized he was not going to respond so I sought legal advice. The attorney I spoke to was not able to help me so I dropped the idea temporarily while I tried to sort things out.
A few days later, approximately ten days after I'd stopped calling the abuser, I was served with a restraining order and a suit for harrassment, assault & invasion of privacy. I had 7 days to find an attorney to represent me at the preliminary hearing. After making numerous calls to numerous attorneys that could not take the case on such short notice, I finally found one that could, the day before the hearing. As it turned out, he spoke the the plaintiff's attorney, they both acknowledged that the plaintiff had no grounds for the suit since I did not assualt him nor did I threaten him.
We negotiated an agreement (I did more work than the attorney) that allowed the injunction to stay in place and prevented me from filing suit against the abuser or the harrassment suit would be reinstated. This all took place over six months ago.
In December I wrote to my attorney requesting that he forward my file and all of its contents. He did not. For the next several months I was in therapy and counseling dealing with the aftermath of the abuse that took place so long ago as well as the trauma I endured by being sued by my abuser. I am still in therapy and probably will be for a long time.
The attorney never did forward my file. A little over a month ago I sent a second letter requesting that he forward my file. He did not. Last week I sent him a third letter, this time certified, requesting my file and a copy of the executed agreement. The file came but it is not complete. There were two proposed agreements that we rejected prior to the third and final agreement. The cover letter states that this is the file I had requested but that the executed agreement is not included because my attorney had never obtained a copy from the palintiff's attorney.
What are my rights here? How do I get a copy of the complete file? What are my attorney's obligations to me? Should he have forwarded it automatically when we reached a resolution? Should I have had to request it three times? Shouldn't he have obtained a copy of the agreement to be sure it was filed with the court?
As you may understand, this is a very sensitive issue for me and feeling like I am being mistreated by the attorney who promised to help me is making things worse. Again, I appreciate any help or advice you can offer. Thank you.
I reside in Massachusetts. I'll give a brief background of my case and what has transpired since.
When I was 11-13 years old, I lived at a residential school here in MA. While there, I was repeatedly sexually abused by one of the teachers. I am 42 years of age now and only recently have begun to understand the damage that was caused by the abuse.
In an effort to reslove the issues of my past, I had been searching for some time to find my abuser so that I could confront him and, hopefully, get some form of explanation that might put some of those issues behind me.
I did finally locate him and contacted him at work. He was, to say the least, very surprised to hear from me, although he did seem as though he was willing to speak to me since he told me that I had reached him at an inconvenient time and to call him a few days later, at his office, at a specific time. When I did, I got his voicemail so I left a message for him to return the call. He did not. I thought that perhaps he had somehow missed my message so I called him again, at his office and at home. He did not respond. Over a six week period I called him a total of 9 times, leaving non-threatening but increasingly irritated messages each time.
I finally realized he was not going to respond so I sought legal advice. The attorney I spoke to was not able to help me so I dropped the idea temporarily while I tried to sort things out.
A few days later, approximately ten days after I'd stopped calling the abuser, I was served with a restraining order and a suit for harrassment, assault & invasion of privacy. I had 7 days to find an attorney to represent me at the preliminary hearing. After making numerous calls to numerous attorneys that could not take the case on such short notice, I finally found one that could, the day before the hearing. As it turned out, he spoke the the plaintiff's attorney, they both acknowledged that the plaintiff had no grounds for the suit since I did not assualt him nor did I threaten him.
We negotiated an agreement (I did more work than the attorney) that allowed the injunction to stay in place and prevented me from filing suit against the abuser or the harrassment suit would be reinstated. This all took place over six months ago.
In December I wrote to my attorney requesting that he forward my file and all of its contents. He did not. For the next several months I was in therapy and counseling dealing with the aftermath of the abuse that took place so long ago as well as the trauma I endured by being sued by my abuser. I am still in therapy and probably will be for a long time.
The attorney never did forward my file. A little over a month ago I sent a second letter requesting that he forward my file. He did not. Last week I sent him a third letter, this time certified, requesting my file and a copy of the executed agreement. The file came but it is not complete. There were two proposed agreements that we rejected prior to the third and final agreement. The cover letter states that this is the file I had requested but that the executed agreement is not included because my attorney had never obtained a copy from the palintiff's attorney.
What are my rights here? How do I get a copy of the complete file? What are my attorney's obligations to me? Should he have forwarded it automatically when we reached a resolution? Should I have had to request it three times? Shouldn't he have obtained a copy of the agreement to be sure it was filed with the court?
As you may understand, this is a very sensitive issue for me and feeling like I am being mistreated by the attorney who promised to help me is making things worse. Again, I appreciate any help or advice you can offer. Thank you.