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What is the name of your state?arialWhat is the name of your state? I live in California but my mother who just died 6/15/04 lived in NY. Does he have the right to come in and distribute her personal belongings after living apart for 27 years and having a male lover? The situation is she owned her trailer and her car and everything in it, supposedly leaving no will and after 27 years of separation he moves right into her trailer and starts cleaning house giving and throwing things away but only after spending three days alone in the place. My mother has 5 children and 16 grandchildren for whom she worked her whole life to leave them something. He's cleaned out the trailer and is now trying to sell it and I'm afraid he's gonna get his hands on her 401K and her profit sharing even tho she stipulated it be left to her grandchildren. He signed the do not resesitate form in the hospital without consulting all of us and he ordered a partial autopsy. My mother didn't have alot but it's the principal here that she's being disgraced by him. I checked with the surgate department to see if maybe she left a will with the county or state without telling us but there was none. That department referred me to legal aid but when I went there they told me I made too much money to get any help from them. That I would have to hire a lawyer. Like I said I live in California and they live in NY. I have three brothers and a sister . My sister isn't his biological child but he did adopt her. My three brothers have issues with him and his gayness so they won't stand up to him. He mastered the art of manipulating them years ago. He physically tried to remove me from my mothers home and I shold have pressed charges just to stop or prolong him doing any more damage but I was trying to be the bigger, better person. What can I do? So I have a leg to stand on or should I just let my mother go down in disgrace?