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me and my girlfriend aren't married at all but have a daughter that is 5 months old. I finished building my house about 2 months after she was born. Since then my girlfriend has been living with me. We havn't been getting along at all. I pay 100% of the bills. She hasn't tried very hard to get a job at all. She has places that want to take her to court for unpaid bills. She signed up for college courses with federal aid and didn't go to school, and spent the finacial aid check on food and things for the house.
I work 40 hours a week and have do companies i do side work for. i am with my daughter nearly every morning, but she is sleeping when I come home. I go out and do things on sat. night and sometimes friday night if I have pre-made plans, but im alsways home on sunday to spend time with g/f daughter.
My girlfriend has no form of transportation or anything of value. If she moves out she claims that she can't move back in with her parents, even tho I think that she will move back with them. It is a mutual agreement that we can't live together. We are trying couseling next thursday to see how that works out, if it doesn't then we are spliting up.
Obviously she is going to file child support papers. She has told me ' I will try to get every penny out of you I can' before. I don't agree with her work ethics or lifestyle at all and am worried about myself losing my house that I worked so hard to build for myself.
We live in OH right now, but if she files for child support she will be filing in MI. Is it better for me to file in OH before she files in MI? Does anyone have any general advice?
me and my girlfriend aren't married at all but have a daughter that is 5 months old. I finished building my house about 2 months after she was born. Since then my girlfriend has been living with me. We havn't been getting along at all. I pay 100% of the bills. She hasn't tried very hard to get a job at all. She has places that want to take her to court for unpaid bills. She signed up for college courses with federal aid and didn't go to school, and spent the finacial aid check on food and things for the house.
I work 40 hours a week and have do companies i do side work for. i am with my daughter nearly every morning, but she is sleeping when I come home. I go out and do things on sat. night and sometimes friday night if I have pre-made plans, but im alsways home on sunday to spend time with g/f daughter.
My girlfriend has no form of transportation or anything of value. If she moves out she claims that she can't move back in with her parents, even tho I think that she will move back with them. It is a mutual agreement that we can't live together. We are trying couseling next thursday to see how that works out, if it doesn't then we are spliting up.
Obviously she is going to file child support papers. She has told me ' I will try to get every penny out of you I can' before. I don't agree with her work ethics or lifestyle at all and am worried about myself losing my house that I worked so hard to build for myself.
We live in OH right now, but if she files for child support she will be filing in MI. Is it better for me to file in OH before she files in MI? Does anyone have any general advice?