Father left California last night

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[This message has been edited by Bambi37001 (edited September 26, 2000).]

You are spot on regarding the letter to the school and also not allowing anyone else to pick up the children. What is the OSC for ?

Also, why do you need your ex permission to take the child to get help ? What is his reason for denying it ??

You have more than enough reason to get back into court and get a crap load of things sorted. Your children are suffering, please go back to court and sort it out as soon as you can.



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[This message has been edited by Bambi37001 (edited September 26, 2000).]

If it were not for your child suffering, I would also say wait. Wait for him to do something, either to ask for visitation or for the next demand or threat. Then send all your letters. Once you have his responses, at that point, file your changes.

However, the concern has got to be the child and you need to do whatever you can to help him. You can find threatment that does not require his signiture but until things are sorted with the ex, you will have to pay for the treatment.



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Psst... I do not work for Macdonald’s or Burger King, and even if I did, I would not tell you. For sloppy bread, tired tomatoes, frozen onions, watered down mayonnaise and imitation meat, please find a drive through window with a person who openly admits they make that stuff.

My advice above is equal to the advice they would give if you asked that person a legal question.

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[This message has been edited by Bambi37001 (edited September 26, 2000).]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Bambi37001:
Without addressing anything else, what do you think my chances are of getting a judge to award temporary full legal custody so that the counselor will not be violating any laws or statutes?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

That is such a tough question to answer.. you have a lot against him and his wife, but I am not sure it is enough to get full custody. You have more chance to petition the courts to allow the treatment to your son without his permission than getting custody.

If you went before a judge and told them that your ex is refusing to allow treatment to your son, I am fairly certain that a judge would give you that permission (if indeed you need it in the first place) and would probably order the father to pay for some of it.

Again, I do not know if you need his permission anyway.. I do not know CA law in this area.




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Psst... I do not work for Macdonald’s or Burger King, and even if I did, I would not tell you. For sloppy bread, tired tomatoes, frozen onions, watered down mayonnaise and imitation meat, please find a drive through window with a person who openly admits they make that stuff.

My advice above is equal to the advice they would give if you asked that person a legal question.