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navywife_tx
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I was once married to a man for 3 years and with him for a total of 5 years. I was 9 months pregnant with my 7 year old daughter when we rekindled our relationship. We got married when she was 2 years old and divorced in 1999. Her biological dad has never seen her, never sent a penny, never sent a b-day card or christmas gift. I didn't even list him on her birth certificate b/c he showed no interest in her. My ex husband has been her father, supported her for the past 7 years and now he wants to adopt her eventhough we are divorced. She had surgery when she was 2 months old and he was the one who nearly lost his job to be there and hold her for 5 days. I want him to make it legal b/c she is starting to ask why her last name is different from his and her sisters. We had a daughter in the time we were together,and they have no idea that they are only half sisters. I have remarried and have a one year old daughter with my current husband. I moved out of state and allowed my 7 yr. old to stay with her sister and i gave my ex temporary custody by mandate. I now want my kids to come live with me but in my divorce paper it states that my ex is the domisiliary parent and i have reasonable visitation rights. If he adopts my 7 yr. old, i told him i was going to be her domisiliary parent b/c i want them to come live with me.Should i let him adopt her b/c he's been a better father to her then her biological dad was? Should i take my 7 yr. old to live with me in Texas even if he refuses to let my 4 yr. old come along too? I don't want to split them up but i miss my kids and they need their mother. He is single but takes good care of them. His parents help him by babysitting until he gets off work and i don't want them raising my kids for me. What should i do? He keeps telling me that i got myself in this situation so i should suffer by the girls living in Louisiana while i'm over in Texas. I can't help it that my husband is in the military and that is where he was stationed when i met him. If anyone has any advice or would like to email me for more information, please do so. [email protected]