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ernsmom
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What is the name of your state?Kansas
I have found your message boards through the search engines and have read the posted forums. I seem to have a different question and need advice as to handle my situation. All your questions seem to relate to parents of daughters and their children. Mine is the opposite. My 19 yr old son is involved with a gal who has one 3yr old daughter already. She is now pg, with we think my sons child ,now. She was and still is very active sexually (many partners) and now I find out she has been taken Meth 1 -2 times a month. I beleive she is still taking Meth this month, (as to I have witnessed her behaivor and feel she is still on the drug) She is 3 months along in her pregnancy. I know when this baby is born we can and will get a paternity test, but what I am needing help on is mine or my son's right to this child The way she treats her 1st child is terrible and I can not see my grandchild growing up that way. This gal is now 21, has left her 1st child in a car strapped in a car steat while in a house having sex with a guy. Has taken her 1st child with her to parties. Has been on (what she has said to my son) Meth because it helps her deal with work and rasing this 3 yr old. I can go on and on about her and her problems but you all may not want to know it all now. lol Bottom line is she is not a good mother to Taylor(her 1st child) and I am also looking in on turning her in to Social Services too.
I am so angry now at her for putting this unborn child at risk with her selfish behavior.
If this child in my son's baby do I or my son have any rights for custody???? I do feel that it may be his and will proceed for now as if it is his. They are not married, and as for the moment not a couple.
Help!!!!
Karen (ernsmom)
I have found your message boards through the search engines and have read the posted forums. I seem to have a different question and need advice as to handle my situation. All your questions seem to relate to parents of daughters and their children. Mine is the opposite. My 19 yr old son is involved with a gal who has one 3yr old daughter already. She is now pg, with we think my sons child ,now. She was and still is very active sexually (many partners) and now I find out she has been taken Meth 1 -2 times a month. I beleive she is still taking Meth this month, (as to I have witnessed her behaivor and feel she is still on the drug) She is 3 months along in her pregnancy. I know when this baby is born we can and will get a paternity test, but what I am needing help on is mine or my son's right to this child The way she treats her 1st child is terrible and I can not see my grandchild growing up that way. This gal is now 21, has left her 1st child in a car strapped in a car steat while in a house having sex with a guy. Has taken her 1st child with her to parties. Has been on (what she has said to my son) Meth because it helps her deal with work and rasing this 3 yr old. I can go on and on about her and her problems but you all may not want to know it all now. lol Bottom line is she is not a good mother to Taylor(her 1st child) and I am also looking in on turning her in to Social Services too.
I am so angry now at her for putting this unborn child at risk with her selfish behavior.
If this child in my son's baby do I or my son have any rights for custody???? I do feel that it may be his and will proceed for now as if it is his. They are not married, and as for the moment not a couple.
Help!!!!
Karen (ernsmom)