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caandla
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We live in New Jersey and this problem started in 1991. Our neighbors, who we were friendly with in 1991, had a rail road tie and rock wall on their front property that bordered our driveway. They said they wanted to replace the rail road ties with a nice rock wall. We discussed it and we mentioned that they were on our property at the beginning of the wall by about 2 to 3 feet. Our property was not staked at the time. They acknowledged this and said they would move back to the property line when the new wall was put up. We even removed 2 or 3 trees that were at the end of the driveway because they would be too far from the wall when it was done and would look funny. We gave the people access to our driveway so they could do what they wanted to do. As the wall was being put up the neighbor complained that she didn't like the way this looked and didn't like that, it took a while for the wall to go up. It was completed on a Sunday in May, 1991 while we were out for the day. We came home in the dark and noticed it was done, but nothing else. The next day or two it rained and it wasn't until after that my husband went to put the lights back up that we had on that side of the driveway. He noticed something was wrong when he couldn't get behind one of the remaing trees. We then took a long hard look and realized they were on our property not the original 2 to 3 feet but now about 5 to 6 feet and not just at the beginning of the wall but all the way up. We confronted them about it and they proceeded to tell us we were crazy, we were probably on their property all this time. We called the police and depending on who responded, one wanted to ticket or arrest them, another would ticket or arrest us for removing the rocks. The town did not want to get involved, we had the property staked just to make sure we were correct in how much property they had now taken and we went to a lawyer. He told us we would have to go to court, which could cost us up to $10,000.00. He said we would most likely win but it would be costly and time consuming. He also said even if we did win they could file against us and take us to court again. We truthfully didn't understand this and we also didn't have $10,000.00 or the time to take off from work to go to court. The wall has remained, with many missing rocks that we have removed, all these years. Now we hear that they want to put up a new wall and we don't know what to do. The stakes clearly mark the property line, is it against the law for anyone to remove them. We will not let anyone on our property to take the existing wall down or put up a new one, but then they seem to do things when people aren't home so unless we set up a guard to watch our property things could just happen when we aren't home. In the past 13 years my husband has wanted to take the aggressive approach and just get a back hoe and take the wall down. I on the other hand have been passive, worried that if he did that he might damage their septic system which is behind the wall, which is one of the reasons we think they may have taken this extra property. The only thing we did do was remove quite a few of the rocks from the wall. Any help or solution to resolve this problem would be greatly appreciated. We don't know what to do. It just seems wrong that they should have any rights or say in the matter as they have clearly taken our property.