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What is the name of your state? NJ
I'm getting very nervous. Is it time to call another attorney, or are we on the right track?
The mandatory background...
I was at an annual pool party at our condominium complex, where they bring in rides and entertainment. One of the rides buckles your feet and swings you upside down. I had ridden it for the prior three years. The last time, the operator had never set up the ride before, and forgot the safety harness. We have photos of previous years, and the year of the accident. I fell out, while swinging upside down, feet still attached, fell about 15 feet, landed on head & back, bounced over feet and landed on face. Broken back. Severe concussion, two legs in casts for 10 months. Nerve damage to face (fixed after only a month of visits to oral surgeon - least of injuries). Nerve damage to legs and feet. Three years later, still on medication from neurologist for nerve pain and dizzy spells, and told I will be for the rest of my life, and seeing regularly, still seeing foot doctor, will never wear shoes not made by foot doctor EVER again (and I'm a girl - imagine the pain!!) due to tearing of EVERY ligament, tendon, and muscle in BOTH feet. Technically not allowed to drive due to recurring severe dizziness, however with medication, it is usually ok, and I have to work.
I have never sued anyone. I hesitated to see a lawyer for this. I SPECIFICALLY told him I did not want to sue the condo association. They gave my 14-year-old son (who was taking photos and witnessed the accident) home and cell numbers, kept him calm while waiting for the ambulance, told the ambulance drivers he was my son and should go with me. They brought us food, they drove him to friends' homes, they drove me to doctor's appointments and surgeries, and they cleared special paths for me when it snowed. They were involved and concerned from the second the accident happened. The ride company never even called to see if I survived.
Fast forward. I waited a month to hear from the ride company. Common courtesy was all I asked. By then, I realized the injuries were more serious than I believed, despite what I was hearing. I don't know any attorney's so I picked one in my town who said he would come to me. I still couldn't really stand up, let alone drive or stand up. I gave him witness names, including the clown, who was also a paramedic - first on the scene, a fellow resident, second on the scene, who happened to also be a doctor, photos, etc...
He waited to file until the end of the two-year statute of limitations was almost up. Then, he did nothing. 2 years and 9 months after the accident, I gave a deposition to the defense. A week after that, we had a mediation session - with a REAL ESTATE ATTORNEY! My attorney had sued the condo association, even though I told him I didn't want to. He wouldn't agree to what I said I would settle for, and that I wouldn't ask for a cent from the condo association, only the ride company. The end result was that I had to see the defense physician, for a whopping five minute exam. That was two months ago. The three year mark is this week. My attorney had not even discovered the name of the ride manufacturer. The defense gave that to him. The only photos he provided at the mediation were the snapshots I took - no blow-ups of the defective ride, or injuries. Strict Target copies of my photos that I had to get for him, because he said it cost too much for him to make copies. I also had to pay for my physical exam by his expert, despite my still seeing the neurologist, foot doctor, and spine doctor at the time, and his advertisement that I pay no money.
Meanwhile, it has been three years. His plan is to wait for it to go through the system, and not act at all proactively, despite reports from every single one of my physicians, x-rays, ultrasounds, bone-scans, MRIs, and on and on, over 18 months ago that the damage remaining is permanent.
Shouldn't we be doing something other than sitting back and waiting?
Should I be talking to other attorneys?
If I do change, do we have to do the entire three year waiting process over again?
Thank you for taking the time to read through this.
PS - In the year of 2004, the law firm of father and two sons does not have a website!
I'm getting very nervous. Is it time to call another attorney, or are we on the right track?
The mandatory background...
I was at an annual pool party at our condominium complex, where they bring in rides and entertainment. One of the rides buckles your feet and swings you upside down. I had ridden it for the prior three years. The last time, the operator had never set up the ride before, and forgot the safety harness. We have photos of previous years, and the year of the accident. I fell out, while swinging upside down, feet still attached, fell about 15 feet, landed on head & back, bounced over feet and landed on face. Broken back. Severe concussion, two legs in casts for 10 months. Nerve damage to face (fixed after only a month of visits to oral surgeon - least of injuries). Nerve damage to legs and feet. Three years later, still on medication from neurologist for nerve pain and dizzy spells, and told I will be for the rest of my life, and seeing regularly, still seeing foot doctor, will never wear shoes not made by foot doctor EVER again (and I'm a girl - imagine the pain!!) due to tearing of EVERY ligament, tendon, and muscle in BOTH feet. Technically not allowed to drive due to recurring severe dizziness, however with medication, it is usually ok, and I have to work.
I have never sued anyone. I hesitated to see a lawyer for this. I SPECIFICALLY told him I did not want to sue the condo association. They gave my 14-year-old son (who was taking photos and witnessed the accident) home and cell numbers, kept him calm while waiting for the ambulance, told the ambulance drivers he was my son and should go with me. They brought us food, they drove him to friends' homes, they drove me to doctor's appointments and surgeries, and they cleared special paths for me when it snowed. They were involved and concerned from the second the accident happened. The ride company never even called to see if I survived.
Fast forward. I waited a month to hear from the ride company. Common courtesy was all I asked. By then, I realized the injuries were more serious than I believed, despite what I was hearing. I don't know any attorney's so I picked one in my town who said he would come to me. I still couldn't really stand up, let alone drive or stand up. I gave him witness names, including the clown, who was also a paramedic - first on the scene, a fellow resident, second on the scene, who happened to also be a doctor, photos, etc...
He waited to file until the end of the two-year statute of limitations was almost up. Then, he did nothing. 2 years and 9 months after the accident, I gave a deposition to the defense. A week after that, we had a mediation session - with a REAL ESTATE ATTORNEY! My attorney had sued the condo association, even though I told him I didn't want to. He wouldn't agree to what I said I would settle for, and that I wouldn't ask for a cent from the condo association, only the ride company. The end result was that I had to see the defense physician, for a whopping five minute exam. That was two months ago. The three year mark is this week. My attorney had not even discovered the name of the ride manufacturer. The defense gave that to him. The only photos he provided at the mediation were the snapshots I took - no blow-ups of the defective ride, or injuries. Strict Target copies of my photos that I had to get for him, because he said it cost too much for him to make copies. I also had to pay for my physical exam by his expert, despite my still seeing the neurologist, foot doctor, and spine doctor at the time, and his advertisement that I pay no money.
Meanwhile, it has been three years. His plan is to wait for it to go through the system, and not act at all proactively, despite reports from every single one of my physicians, x-rays, ultrasounds, bone-scans, MRIs, and on and on, over 18 months ago that the damage remaining is permanent.
Shouldn't we be doing something other than sitting back and waiting?
Should I be talking to other attorneys?
If I do change, do we have to do the entire three year waiting process over again?
Thank you for taking the time to read through this.
PS - In the year of 2004, the law firm of father and two sons does not have a website!
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