cadillaclimo
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What is the name of your state? PA
My husband of 23 yrs left on July 10th, and is doing some really crazy things so I believe he is going through an age crisis (55).
I saw a lawyer and she said it was too early to settle anything, he is still in a "guilty stage"....can anyone explain this better....what is a guilty stage and how long does it last?? And she said it did sound like he was sick, and might come back.
Well....meanwhile he is burning bridges like crazy, bought another house on article/agreement, bought a car, getting tattoos....just blowing money like crazy with a girl he just MET in Aug.
Meanwhile our mortgage is behind, and there isn't any talking to him, he's very vindictive to me.
Most of his income is under the table, so spousal support would be opening a big can of worms.
I want to freeze assets and get temporary possession of the home or something (so he can't take stuff out) but the lawyer said it would cost about $1500, and I don't have that kind of money.
I hate to see him ruin everything we worked 23 yrs for in 3 months time....is there ANY solution????
My husband of 23 yrs left on July 10th, and is doing some really crazy things so I believe he is going through an age crisis (55).
I saw a lawyer and she said it was too early to settle anything, he is still in a "guilty stage"....can anyone explain this better....what is a guilty stage and how long does it last?? And she said it did sound like he was sick, and might come back.
Well....meanwhile he is burning bridges like crazy, bought another house on article/agreement, bought a car, getting tattoos....just blowing money like crazy with a girl he just MET in Aug.
Meanwhile our mortgage is behind, and there isn't any talking to him, he's very vindictive to me.
Most of his income is under the table, so spousal support would be opening a big can of worms.
I want to freeze assets and get temporary possession of the home or something (so he can't take stuff out) but the lawyer said it would cost about $1500, and I don't have that kind of money.
I hate to see him ruin everything we worked 23 yrs for in 3 months time....is there ANY solution????