Maybe, maybe not
asea said:
What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
I know PA honors common law marriage. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 10 years. Long story short, a split is imminent, and I have all the assets in this relationship: house, investments, etc. He spends all his money on his cars and boats, and has paid for virtually nothing around the house, including utility bills, for the past 5 years. If we "divorce", can he come after my assets?
There are no children, thank God.
asea
A few links with what is being written about Common Law in PA:
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/pennsylvania/pa_art08/view
Common Law Marriage
In 2003 the Commonwealth Court of Pennsylvania issued the PNC Bank v. Stamos decision which some people believe abolished common law marriage in Pennsylvania. While there is not great clarity on whether people who have attempted to enter into common law marriage since Stamos have been successful, we believe that properly entered into common law marriages before Stamos may be held valid.
In the divorce context, where both parties are alive and going through a divorce, there is only one way to properly establish a common law marriage. In order to do so, a party must prove, by clear and convincing evidence, that the parties declared to each other a present intent to be married at some point in time. Once sufficiently proven, no other proof is necessary.
If, on the other hand, once party is deceased (such as in the context of a will contest, for example), it will not be possible to prove the present intent language. In those cases, cohabitation and reputation that you are married are important. However, in the divorce context, proof of present intent to be married is all that is required. It is terribly difficult to prove common law marriage in Pennsylvania. The preferred type of marriage is obviously the ceremonial marriage with a government issued marriage certificate.
-- Lee A. Schwartz, Attorney at Law
http://www.finaid.org/educators/commonlaw.phtml
Common Law Marriages
Common law marriages can have a bearing on student aid eligibility, since a married student is automatically independent.
The requirements for a common law marriage are as follows:
• The couple must live together for a significant amount of time. The word significant is not defined in any state, but is generally interpreted as sufficient time to reasonably establish the intent of the couple to be married.
• The couple must hold themselves out as married. This can include use of the same last name, referring to each other as husband and wife, maintaining a joint checking account, signing the lease as "Mr. and Mrs.", and filing a joint income tax return.
• The couple must have the capacity to be married. This means they must have the legal and mental capacity to be married and not be already married to someone else.
• The couple must intend (consent) to be married. Intent is usually judged by the couple's conduct.
• The couple must have a reputation in the community as being married.
The key requirement is cohabitation while holding themselves out as being married. Mere cohabitation without holding themselves out as a married couple does not constitute marriage.
Common law marriage is recognized only in the following states:
• Alabama
• Colorado
• District of Columbia
• Georgia (if created before 1/1/1997)
• Idaho (if created before 1/1/1996)
• Iowa
• Kansas
• Montana
• New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only, effective only at death)
• Ohio (if created before 10/10/1991)
• Oklahoma
• Pennsylvania
• Rhode Island
• South Carolina
• Texas
• Utah
Note that since common law marriage is a state phenomenon, you need to check the laws in the relevant state. There are subtle differences among the states. For example, in some states there is a form you can file to declare an informal marriage.
On September 17, 2003, the Commonwealth Court of Pennsylvania ruled that it would no longer recognize common-law marriages in Pennsylvania in PNC Bank Corp. v. Workers Comp. Bd. (Stamos) (860 CD 2002). It is unclear, however, whether this decision is binding for federal student aid purposes, because it is not necessarily consistent with State law as interpreted by the Pennsylvania Supreme Court. If this decision is upheld on appeal, it does not affect any unions prior to September 17, 2003.
Note that if a couple were living together in a common law marriage, and then moved to a state that doesn't recognize common law marriages, they are still considered married. This is because of the "Full Faith and Credit" clause of the US Constitution (Section 1 of Article IV).
A vacation in a common law state does not normally result in a common law marriage if the couple resides in a state that does not recognize common law marriages.
If the financial aid administrator has any questions as to whether the couple is married, he or she can create a "Documentation of Common Law Marriage Form" that the couple would complete asserting that as of a particular date they agreed to be married, have lived in one of the states listed above as husband and wife after that date, and have represented to others that they are married. The form must be signed by both husband and wife in the presence of a notary and must be notarized. If they complete the form, that's sufficient documentation, since the form itself satisfies the requirements for a common law marriage. Several states already have such a form; in Texas it is called the Declaration and Registration of Informal Marriage form.
The following table summarizes the requirements for a common law marriage in each state.
Alabama capacity, agreement to be married, consummation
Colorado cohabitation, reputation as married
District of Columbia intent, cohabitation
Iowa intent, agreement, cohabitation, public declarations of husband/wife status
Kansas capacity, agreement, represent to public as married
Montana capacity, agreement, cohabitation, reputation as married
Oklahoma competent, agreement, cohabitation
Pennsylvania verbal exchange between the couple expressing intent and agreement to be married
Rhode Island intent, conduct that yields a reputation as married
South Carolina couple intends for others to believe the couple is married
Texas sign a form provided by the county clerk, agreement, cohabit, represent to others as married
Utah capacity, competent, cohabitation, reputation as married
