Brookenstein
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What is the name of your state? CA
My husband of 7 years has decided he wants a divorce/separation. We have 2 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. The separation is completely amicable.
I have several questions/concerns. How much say does the court have in how things are divided? We just bought a house, have lots of credit card debt, etc. He wants to put all of our debt on him and keep the house. Would the court let us do it this way? Can they force us to sell the house? In our tentative agreement I'm sure I'm asking for way less child support than the court would grant, but its the amount that I feel I can survive on and still gives him money to pay the debt off.
Is there a benefit to a separation vs. divorce? What are the real differences?
We are currently in SoCal and living together, but I will move to OR with the children when things are squared away. Do I have anything to be concerned about with regard to taking the kids out of state? how long does the process take? When would I be able to move?
Is it possible to do this without an attorney since we are completely amicable and have the same demands?
Thanks for the help.
My husband of 7 years has decided he wants a divorce/separation. We have 2 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. The separation is completely amicable.
I have several questions/concerns. How much say does the court have in how things are divided? We just bought a house, have lots of credit card debt, etc. He wants to put all of our debt on him and keep the house. Would the court let us do it this way? Can they force us to sell the house? In our tentative agreement I'm sure I'm asking for way less child support than the court would grant, but its the amount that I feel I can survive on and still gives him money to pay the debt off.
Is there a benefit to a separation vs. divorce? What are the real differences?
We are currently in SoCal and living together, but I will move to OR with the children when things are squared away. Do I have anything to be concerned about with regard to taking the kids out of state? how long does the process take? When would I be able to move?
Is it possible to do this without an attorney since we are completely amicable and have the same demands?
Thanks for the help.