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MissingMiranda
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What is the name of your state? Florida, spouse is in WA state. Military spouse for 15 years.
Well, this is a very long and complicated tale but I will be as brief as I can and only mention what I need.
My spouse left me two and a half years, he was and is still active Navy(I'm not asking about the adultary issue). He took my daughter and his girlfriend(including her 3 daughters) across country to his new duty station. I have tried to plead my case to the Navy to no avail(the master chief, the ombudsman, the chaplain........now they ignore me and I was told he could be with his girlfriend , in a nutshell I was left with absolutely nothing, not even clothes( but really isn't the issue here now).
I have tried to contact my daughter numerous times also, spoke to her on the phone often until about 6 months ago, then no luck. (really has no bearing but the time frame is important).
I have kept tabs on where they are ect just to not lose my child and work on bringing her back to FL. Recently I found out they are living in Navy Housing .....yes, my husband, daughter, his girlfriend and her three childern... I know he can't legally be living with her on Federal property being married to me still. So basically how are they doing it unless she is posing as me? I've thought maybe some how he obtained a divorce illegally(in talks with IRS right now, someone forged my name on taxes so he's not above doing something sneaky, :x)....or married her without the benefit of divorcing me? I have no idea, I am confused.
When I spoke to my daughter before, she informed me that her father's girlfriend and he tells everyone she is his wife, which really I didn't think much of, he is the type to "keep appearances" and would say something to that order.
In essence, I need help.....I have tried the Navy, I have support orders(ignored of course), emails, everything I could think to do. How do I find out if she has stolen my identity, or divorce papers were forged? He did not renew my ID card so I can not go to Navy Legal ect.......
Someone help?
Well, this is a very long and complicated tale but I will be as brief as I can and only mention what I need.
My spouse left me two and a half years, he was and is still active Navy(I'm not asking about the adultary issue). He took my daughter and his girlfriend(including her 3 daughters) across country to his new duty station. I have tried to plead my case to the Navy to no avail(the master chief, the ombudsman, the chaplain........now they ignore me and I was told he could be with his girlfriend , in a nutshell I was left with absolutely nothing, not even clothes( but really isn't the issue here now).
I have tried to contact my daughter numerous times also, spoke to her on the phone often until about 6 months ago, then no luck. (really has no bearing but the time frame is important).
I have kept tabs on where they are ect just to not lose my child and work on bringing her back to FL. Recently I found out they are living in Navy Housing .....yes, my husband, daughter, his girlfriend and her three childern... I know he can't legally be living with her on Federal property being married to me still. So basically how are they doing it unless she is posing as me? I've thought maybe some how he obtained a divorce illegally(in talks with IRS right now, someone forged my name on taxes so he's not above doing something sneaky, :x)....or married her without the benefit of divorcing me? I have no idea, I am confused.
When I spoke to my daughter before, she informed me that her father's girlfriend and he tells everyone she is his wife, which really I didn't think much of, he is the type to "keep appearances" and would say something to that order.
In essence, I need help.....I have tried the Navy, I have support orders(ignored of course), emails, everything I could think to do. How do I find out if she has stolen my identity, or divorce papers were forged? He did not renew my ID card so I can not go to Navy Legal ect.......
Someone help?
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