Thank you gracie3787 for at least not judging me before any facts.
This is some of the case. I lived with this man for 23 years owned our own home was told did not have to work he would do it all. Some men like that power over a woman.
I spent just as much time cleaning up after him and two children thats just as hard as what anyone does no matter what anyone says.
I may not have all the spelling right so please forgive that.
I guess its my fault for not explaining the case. I,m not to good at the whole computer thing but am getting used to it by no choice.
Anyways thought I was pretty secure until I got cancer and yes there were problems before that. But I have always taken him for his word and did not see this coming and yes he was cheating. I found out when I checked on the car loans to see if I had made the payment and was told there was one not paid yet. The car was not mine he had bought her one.
Hit me like a ton of bricks. So needless to say I,m now trying to defend myself against him and his lawyer who is alot like the lawyer who replyed to me very rude and has never probably had any real hardship in his life see I can be just as rude.
So house is now morgaged to the hilt because he paid his truck off by second morgaging the house as well as other things.
I am now living in the house and am forced to come up with the money to pay the bills.
And I have contacted legal aid no good can,t get one for a nofault divorce.No ones going to take it with me not having any income.
My question was mearly to find out if there was some other kind of ave, to persue that maybe i,m not aware of. My daughter came to court the last time to help me but did not know if she could for a deposition.
Also he is paying temporary alamony ordered by the judge who told him to take care of his past responsibilitys before taking on any more.
But at divorce when its ever filed by him I may lose the house my car everything and this person is just scared of the end what ever it is and yes I,m also battling cancer at the same time which mister know it all is pretty hard in it self. Simply tried to find out if there was any thing else.
And as far as you mister know it all you should learn alittle kindness it will better you.
Thanks for any help